Just because you have always acted a certain way does not mean you have to continue acting in that certain way. The moment you decide, truly decide to drop the act and become whoever you want to be, you can.
There is a distance between the vision of who you see yourself being and who you are because you choose that distance, thinking that your past must define you.
And so everyday, you wake up and you fall into the day thinking you must remain consistent to a view of yourself that you no longer desire. You can choose differently, you know. You are freer than you realise.
And the moment, you accept this, you will be free of the shackles of the past.
You want to be rich, choose to be rich in this moment…
Don’t go looking for evidence in your past of whether you are allowed to be rich based on whether you have ever been rich before, or whether you know any rich people and whether people, like you, have ever been rich.
In this moment, right now, decide to be rich. Decide to be someone who is rich, regardless of what transpired before.
And then choose it again in the next moment, and the next moment until being rich is simply your identity and there is no way to be anything but rich.
And the conflict for you in each moment, of course, may be the very real possibility that you are not yet physically rich in each of those moments and you may also not be sure that you are allowed to want to be rich in each moment so, what do you do?
Go back to your old way of doing things and accept that the reality must be the only reality and therefore keep creating the present and past reality…
Or simply decide that that has not worked to date so you may as well, choose to use your imagination for something a bit more empowering. You can choose to think rich and be rich and then let those thoughts and let that identity decide how you act.
The actions of a rich human being are completely different from the actions of a poor individual…
A rich person takes responsibility for providing value to the world…
The poor person thinks that they cannot offer anything worthwhile and think that that gives them an out from trying…
A rich person acts boldly, stands out, risks what they have to get what they want…
The poor person tries to protect the little they have and so they try to blend in, not be noticed and definitely take no risks…
A rich person acts intuitively and sometimes, does the unexpected because the vision inside pushes them forward
A poor person tries to find some magic bullet system that must absolutely work without any thought from them. It does not work, they tell themselves nothing ever works and they retreat back to ‘safety’.
A rich person takes responsibility for their results and seeks to learn how to improve…
A poor person blames the government, their upbringing, their current circumstances, even the colour of their skin for stifling them and making it impossible for them to win and they therefore feel trapped in an unfair system.
A rich person decides what they want and then gets rid of any religious or cultural programming that tells them that they cannot have it. A lot of thought goes into breaking free from any limited thinking.
A poor person allows all the programming to bend them into accepting the status quo, whilst telling themselves this is the spiritual way or the selfless way. Ultimately it gives them an out from having to think for themselves.
A rich person ultimately believe in a flexible world that they can create to suit themselves. They use up all their creativity and die empty, having deliberately designed life their way.
A poor person ultimately believes in a rigid, inflexible world where they are trapped and unable to change anything and they look to someone else to come save them. It never happens – they die full of potential.
Most people live at some point between these two places and get to live an okay life that is not wildly successful but just okay…
You can choose to be rich and live a wildly successful life…
You can choose it in this moment…
And then the next moment…
And then the next.
Until it becomes your reality and it is simply who you are and it will feel like everything in the Universe moulds to the power and force of your decision.
Fight for, deliberately design the life you are born to live
PS – The more people you serve, the more money you make.
It is tough to serve more people if it is completely dependent on you servicing clients one at a time or if you do not yet know how to monetise yourself or even what you have to offer. Let me help. Starting Thursday, I am holding a FREE 5 day challenge teaching you how to decide on a product to sell online. Register to join in the challenge at RosemaryNonnyKnight.com/bestsellingproduct
And if you want to know exactly how to get your first five customers step-by-step then pop on over to RosemaryNonnyKnight.com/5customers to get the free blueprint.
Rosemary Nonny Knight used to be a pharmacist and then decided to do her own thing and gain freedom. She made it happen with real estate management and now shows others how to set up their own business and get those first few customers online