Is My Ex Boyfriend Leading Me On? How to Tell If Your Ex is Stringing You Along

“Is my ex boyfriend leading me on?” I’m asked that question often by women who are terribly confused about what exactly their ex boyfriend’s motivations are. These women typically all fall into the category of “woman who wants her ex boyfriend back.” I know how it feels since I was in those very same shoes at one time. You put a lot of hope in his advances one day and the very next day he acts like he’s happy that the break up happened. Is there a way to tell what’s really going on with him or do you have to let nature take its course? I’m not the most patient soul when it comes to matters of the heart and most women would confess the same about themselves. If you’re tired of trying to decipher your ex boyfriend’s actions and words, I’ve got a few tips that I know will help.

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First and foremost, if you’re wondering whether or not your ex boyfriend is leading you on, he probably is. Women typically have some insight into the man they care about, even if they’re no longer a couple. If your heart is telling you that something just isn’t adding up with him, it likely isn’t. You know what it felt like when you two were deeply entrenched in your mutual love before the break up. It feels different now, doesn’t it? He’s hot and then he’s cold and you can’t read him from one day to the next. If your instinct is telling you that your ex boyfriend is playing games with you, listen to it. It rarely will steer you wrong.

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You can also tell a lot about what a man wants by how receptive he is to your own advances. I’m not talking about leading your ex on, but consider how happy he is to hear from you when you call him. Does he answer? Does the call typically ring to voicemail and he takes his time getting back to you? Or, does he ignore your calls and messages completely? If a man is only contacting you when he wants and he’s not considerate enough to return your calls, he’s not that emotionally invested in you anymore.

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Many men will test the waters after a break up just to boost their own egos. In this scenario it doesn’t matter if he’s the one who dumped you or if the reverse happened. There’s something satisfying to all of us when our ex still has feelings for us. Your boyfriend may be reaching out to you periodically just to see how receptive you’ll be to him. If you’re kind and friendly, he’s going to take that as a sign that you’re still willing to pursue a relationship with him. That small boost to his self esteem may be all he needs to find satisfaction in the moment. That’s why he’ll seem very interested, and then suddenly drop out of sight again.

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The very best way to test his true motivations is to go silent yourself for a time. Don’t return his calls right away and never agree to see him at a moment’s notice. Don’t give away too much information about what is going on in your life right now. The key is to keep him guessing and keep him just out of arm’s reach.

If your ex boyfriend is really interested in reconnecting, he’ll continue to pursue you in a respectful way. He won’t play hot and cold. He’ll also want to talk about what went wrong between you two and consequently, what you can both do now to find a way to be closer again. If he seems oblivious to the fact that you two went through a painful break up and if he ignores the need to talk about what happened, the future isn’t his sole focus.

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Don’t put yourself in a position in which you’ll inevitably be hurt again. By that I mean don’t allow yourself to become vulnerable emotionally or physically too quickly. If your ex boyfriend’s true intentions are to get back together with you, he won’t rush anything. He’ll also pace the reconnection so it’s comfortable for both of you.

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Ok, so a common question I get asked is how easy is it to tell if your ex is leading you on? This is a really, really touchy question to answer, especially if you're answering face to face! However the purpose of this article is to let you know the 3 key signs that your ex could be leading you on.

I must stress the word "could" because all relationships are different and all people are different. However, if I was in your position and I spotted all 3 of these signs, I would be getting pretty suspicious my ex was doing the dirty on me.

It's horrible isn't it? You go through the horrible emotional breakup, and just when you think your life is going to change forever and you'll never see your ex in the same way, it kind of, doesn't. In fact, things stay basically the same. You're still seeing your ex, or are in regular contact, and they're acting like everything is normal, but it isn't!

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Believe me when I say this, this is actually a very common scenario. One of my girl friends (that's friends!) was in this exact same scenario. Her and her ex-boyfriend broke up, yet he still acted like they were together.

However the worst thing, was that he had taken down his relationship status on Facebook, telling the world he was single, yet telling my mate that things were still good and that he still loved her.

Eh? Why go to the trouble of breaking up and saying to world "I'm back on the market" if you still loved someone?

There were possibly many reasons why he did this. One was that he was just using her until something better came along, or 2, was simply just stringing her along. By the way, they are not together anymore!

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One of the most surefire ways that your ex is leading you on, is that this are still in close contact with you even if they are seeing someone else. You see, they may well know that they held most of the power in the relationship and they know how much they meant to you. They could be doing this simply to "keep their options open" or, worse, to stop you from moving on.

You see, we humans are selfish beings. We want to have our cake and eat it. Your ex may just want you to keep loving them to boost their own ego, even if they have no intention of getting back with you.

Another surefire way to tell if your ex is leading you on is if they only want to see you to "get physical" yet do not want to talk about getting back to together properly. Often a lot of guys can be guilty of doing this. If you are only seeing your ex for brief periods of time that involve intimacy, then something could be up.

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If you value yourself and have any sort of self-worth, you won't let yourself be taken for a ride like this. Make sure you let yourself known that you are not just a toy that can be brought out whenever it suits them.

Also, if it seems like you are doing most of the running in the efforts to get back with your ex, and all they do is say things rather than actually follow through on what they say, this could be them leading you on.

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Sometimes, you may have a situation where your ex may say they still love you, but when it comes down to it, they never want to hang out with you and truly be with you.
Talk is cheap, and if your ex isn't backing up what they say, they may just be trying to keep you on the hook line for when they need their ego's stroking.

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Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out- Click Here