Love
is a wonderful yet crazy thing. Many people these days are perplexed
by the relationships that come and go in their lives, especially the
important love relationships. One thing to keep in mind is that
everything in your experience is present for learning. We learn
to love ourselves by learning to love another. The greatest
aspect and lesson of love is that of unconditional acceptance.
To
unconditionally accept another persons wishes and behaviors can be
difficult. And at the same time that we allow another the free
will to choose to live life the way he or she wants and with whom,
we must as individuals set boundaries for ourselves so that we do
not become the victims of repetitive hurts influenced by that others
decisions.
When
a person comes to me for a reading on relationship I almost always
ask the same three questions up front. For example, Mary
calls me for a reading and asks me about her relationship with Michael,
I would most likely ask:
1.)
Mary, how long have you known
Michael?
2.)
How did you meet Michael?
3.)
And please Mary, tell me about
the last correspondence you had with
Michael.
With
this information I can pick up on the vibration of the relationship
more firmly. I can tell Mary more about the content of the relationship,
whether it is going to last, or if she might want to be picking up
the pieces and moving on. I might also be able to tell if Mary
and Michael are soul mates, if they've ever had a lifetime together
before this one, and/or whether they are here to work out an issue
or two and then move onward, apart from one another or whether they
might be together forever.
Often,
once a person is clear as to what condition the relationship is in
and what its purpose is in this lifetime, it will help that person
assess what the next step in life might be. When one is confused
by a relationship, all of life can be very puzzling. A stagnant
relationship or the misperception about where a relationship stands
can cause problems at work and in other relationships. But once
the dynamics of a relationship are understood intellectually, the
feelings can be dealt with and the person can move on to heal the
self and the relationship in question.
If
a client is asking about a fairly new relationship, it will help him
or her to know if it is worth the time to pursue, and what might be
watched for in that pursuit. New relationships can be very passionate
and filled with a lot of intensity. This can bring up past hurts
and issues within the individuals involved and can cause fear and
confusion. Some people even run the other direction when they
encounter this type of intensity. The good news is that people
often return once the heart stops pounding and the head clears.
True love in relationship takes time, nurturing and patience lots of
patience. Commitment to another person is a big step.
Relationships can be either long-term or short lived, depending upon
the purpose and the elements involved.
Also,
in a psychic reading I might tell the person inquiring things that he might
want to do for self. Usually these are self-help techniques
that can bring comfort and healing to the emotional/psychological
aspect of being. The heart can become very bruised sometimes
by a forlorn love relationship. Also, the ecstasy of new relationship,
especially a relationship between soul mates can cloud a persons thinking
and actually hinder effective day-to-day living. So to adjust
to the intensity, one can do things like deep breathing, meditation
and light work. Long walks, exercise and singing can also help
to modify the excitement of new love. Isnt love grand?
I
also do psychic readings on relationships other than primary, intimate couplings,
like that of friendship, work relationships, and family relationships.
Oftentimes soul mates come into this world together to perform a common
task, which often plays out in the work life together. World
service and life purpose questions also come up in relationship readings,
and we can focus on those together. Love through relationship
with self and others is what this earth plane reality is all about.
By a combined use of clairvoyance and Tarot I can look into these
aspects of life very succinctly and precisely.
Jackie Williams has worked for as a manager overlooking the talent department for a prominent new age communications company. Later as the internet developed, she diversified her recruitment specialty to server global clients for a internet based spiritual network.
She attained her Master of Arts in Anthropology from Northern Arizona University and her BA from Hunter College.