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Speaking poorly of your child's other parent is one of the largest issues overlooked by co-parents - and yet it is one of the easiest for you to resolve. The reasons (or should I say excuses) that it is acceptable to slag off about your Ex to your children are numerous and yet the confusion that ... Views: 2494
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
We fell in love in Canada today. You can, of course, read that two ways. Those of you who have followed our writings and musings about love and successful marriage know that we fell in love with each other some 47 years ago. And it is true that we ... Views: 2493
Even great conversation topics can lead into dark alleys when you're talking to a grump. Nobody likes to talk to a whiny, crabby person. But sometimes you gotta. Maybe you feel obligated. Maybe she’s your mother or your monster-in-law. Chin up! You can dump that urge to smash the phone to ... Views: 2487
This Christian relationship help will give you five unhealthy characteristics of dysfunctional families that were also present in families in the Old Testament. God created families to be a place of nurture, love, and companionship, but when sin entered the picture, families became a place where ... Views: 2483
Work and Family
Work-family conflict is “a form of interrole conflict in which the role pressures from the work and family domains are mutually incompatible in some respect. That is participation in the work (family) role is made more difficult by virtue of participation in the family ... Views: 2479
Autism Spectrum Alternative Program
ASAP is an equine facilitated sensory integration program for individuals on the autism spectrum or with other physical, mental, emotional or behavior challenges.
ASAP is an equine facilitated sensory integration program for individuals on the autism ... Views: 2475
“Unconditional love is really just love without expectations.” - Louise Hay
As parents, we believe that the regard we hold for our children is the purest, most unconditional kind of love.
Looking into the face of a baby, we know that these tiny, beautiful souls are the surest proof that ... Views: 2467
Tips on How To Save An Affection-Starved Marriage and Keep Your Relationship Happy
Affection can be one of the first things to go after children are born or when a marriage is in trouble. BUT it doesn’t have to mean something serious and it can be naturally restored as I will go on to ... Views: 2466
Taking into account the fact that about 50% of modern marriages to divorce, it's no surprise that the partners are increasingly seeking advice to save marriage in an attempt to their relationship.
A divorce is nearly always an extremely traumatic and unpleasant experience that is costly in ... Views: 2455
"Studies show that children that have at least one adult that takes an active interest in their education do far better in their school,” said Joe Donzelli, communications director for the Lee County School District in Florida USA which is initiating the campaign the country wide “Be ... Views: 2454
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***Office Affairs - by Dr. LeslieBeth Wish, Ed.D., The Official Guide To Family
Why do office affairs happen?
And What to Do about Them?
Office romances are commonplace these days. Television shows such as Boston Legal and Grey’s Anatomy remind us about the temptations and ... Views: 2448
Did Your Whirlwind Life Turn into a Raging Tornado in 2009? Here’s What You Can Do for 2010.
In 2009 with the birth of my new children’s yoga book “What I See, I Can Be: A Guided Yoga Flow for Children” I felt like a new mother. Just like a new mother, my busy schedule left me feeling ... Views: 2446
How to make people respect and honor you?
Do you gain people’s respect easily? Do people respect and honor you for who you are?
Studies show that anyone can get the respect they want and deserve by following simple tips. As you know, you don’t need to be rich, successful, or powerful to ... Views: 2444
Fatherhood and history often repeats itself. I woke up this morning with an old Harry Chapin song from back in the 70’s playing in my head. The song is called “Cats in the Cradle" and the lyrics that stuck in my head and keep playing over again go something like this….
“My child arrived just ... Views: 2441
LOSS OF FAMILY
1. 50% of marriages end in divorce which cuts a child’s support system in half – 1 in 4 women in abusive relationships.
2. Adult bullies: Mental abuse with put downs, insults, belittling, cursing, screaming and controlling without listening or guiding.
3. Physical abuse: ... Views: 2438
The term boomerang kid emerged during the tough economic cycle that forced grown children back in with their parents. The boomerang, an instrument used by aboriginal people in Australia is thrown in the air only to return back to the sender.
While grown children returning home can be a ... Views: 2425
Have you ever been misunderstood, taken the wrong way, or categorized and stereotyped incorrectly? Find out why this happens and what you can do to be perceived correctly by those around you.
WORDS DEFINE YOUR PERSONALITY
Essentially, you define yourself to those around you by the words ... Views: 2425
Years ago, there was an anachronism coined, DINKS. It stood for married couples that had Duel Income, No Kids. As the result of my search on the Internet came up with little related to the term, other than finance-related websites, I assume the term has gone mostly out of style. Much of the ... Views: 2421
When The Soldier Doesn’t Return: The Needs of American Families of Downed Warriors In Iraq
Note: All names have been changed to protect confidentiality.
By LeslieBeth Wish, Ed.D, MSS,MA
Reprinted with author's permission from www.helpstartshere.org
Introduction
Sally had been a ... Views: 2419
For many parents who are divorced or in the process of going through divorce, holidays are especially challenging to navigate through without losing your cool. As you begin to prepare for the holidays by filling up your freezer full of turkey and pies, it is also wise to prepare ahead of time ... Views: 2415
New Years Resolutions that Work
Introduction
It’s holiday time of year again when thoughts turn to shopping, giving, partying and—yes—making New Years’ resolutions. Even if a person doesn’t want to make them, reminders about resolutions are on the Internet, talk ... Views: 2401
Have you ever thought about suicide? Have you ever felt like the world would be better off without you in it? Have you ever spent hours crying or lying in bed with your head covered up? Have you cut yourself off from friends and family? Do you spend copious amounts of time alone in your home? ... Views: 2393
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Governor Romney was correct when he made the statement in the second Presidential Debate that “ . . . if there’s a two parent family, the prospect of living in poverty goes down dramatically. The opportunities that the child will be able to achieve ... Views: 2386
by Janet Gallagher Nestor, MA, LPC, DCEP
Holistic Mental Health Therapist
Most women are multi-taskers. Our culture says we can do it all: Get a good education, be an engaging conversationalist, be beautiful, marry, have children, keep a size 6 figure, have a career, clean the house, drive ... Views: 2385
Can a man and woman manage not to mix together eventually? The answer is “Yo and Nes”—each word, as you can see, is a combination of Yes and No. So, how can you tell if your friendship is going to remain a friendship or turn into something more?
In the movie When Harry Met ... Views: 2384
The concerns your children will have depend a lot on their age. In general, young children will miss family, friends and familiar places. Older children, in addition, will be concerned how their daily routines will be affected, and teenagers will worry about fitting in and about their social ... Views: 2384
Have a relationship question and want Dr. Wish's advice? Email her a question, here. Your query may become an article!
Happy marriages and long-term relationships are not happy every day. John Gottman, a pioneer in marital research, discovered that even in mutually satisfying marriages, ... Views: 2381
It happened one bitterly cold night in January 2011. It was sudden and violent. It took our family by surprise as most tragedies do. We all vacillated between denial and shock. I cried out in anger and in sadness. I begged God to give me back those few minutes before it happened. I would ... Views: 2381
Husband Talks To Others But Not Me: Husband Talks To Everyone Except Me
When we communicate it means we are explaining our inner thoughts and our view on a particular situation. When we are communicating, what we say may not actually align with what is in our mind.
However, when the ... Views: 2378
It’s not easy to admit when you said or did something that didn’t work out the way you hoped. What do you do with your feelings of remorse or disappointment? How do you feel when you make a mistake or when others make mistakes? Your beliefs about mistakes can tell a lot about what you believe ... Views: 2375
Flash games are a source of big fun for people of all ages. Since online games don't require expensive software they are particularly attractive in today's down-trending economy. Free computer flash games are easy to find on a wide range of interests from fishing to fashion or ... Views: 2375
We always have a choice, in every given moment, to be, act and communicate in whatever way we do, however, most of the time we do it unconsciously.
We’ve heard it, read it or have said it many times…kids don’t come with a manual and we all do the best we can with what we know!
It appears ... Views: 2372
Leather has been the gift for everyone who loves to carry the royal style. Styling with leather for men has always been the perfect style statement. On the occasion of father’s day, simply make your father smile with this proud and thoughtful gift idea. Not always you have to be special, but ... Views: 2366
I’ve just arrived back from America where I was attending the wedding of a very good friend, and because I was the Best Man I had to give a speech. Now, I’m used to public speaking and facilitating large groups of people in my personal development workshops, so you might be thinking this was a ... Views: 2364
Instant Relief from Grief: Tip Sheet
Introduction
Give Back
Stay Connected
Cry and Yell
Get Inspired
Get Help
Introduction
Grieving is one of life’s most unpleasant events. Like falling in love, experiencing grief can make you feel as though you are going a little crazy—except ... Views: 2362
Leadership at home: this is about your children, not your politicians
Dr. Joseph Abraham
Question:
There are tough times in our family due to tension between us, the parents, and our two teen aged kids. They are less and less obeying the house rules. How can we maintain their ... Views: 2361
Your partner calls up ecstatic. They just received an amazing job offer that pays better, has more opportunity for advancement-and is halfway across the country. That excitement quickly turns into apprehension, and leaves you wondering what will be involved, what sacrifices will need to be made ... Views: 2360
Have you ever thought that you found The One—only to realize later after much heartache that the person was The Wrong One?
Finding healthy love is so important to your mental and physical health. It’s unfair that it’s so difficult to find the right person. It’s not fair. Here ... Views: 2358
So here we are once again celebrating Christmas. How fast this seems to come around, especially the older I get. Peace and Joy, these are the tools for a meaningful life.
I wish you PEACE. Peace in your heart, with your families and friends. Peace in your mind, especially looking toward ... Views: 2357
In order to make a good decision, adults employ all the logic at their disposal. However, if you are not an Adult Personality Type, or if you are married to an Individual representing another personality type, conflicts occur and logic may not be the primary consideration for deciding what to ... Views: 2349
Fun Children's Recipe For ChipsYou can purchase chips that are made with potatoes, salt, oil and 27 chemicals and added ingredients, or you can purchase chips that are just potatoes, salt and oil. The healthy chips are not usually any less calories and yet, it is unlikely you will be obsessed ... Views: 2349
Are you aware of the fact that some movies, songs and school subjects have a little dog poop in them?
There was a mom who's really disappointed to her children after reiterating to them not to watch explicit shows and listen to songs with bad words.
When her son arrived one evening from ... Views: 2346
Divorce is a difficult enough experience, and when children are involved, most divorcing parents have to set aside their marital feelings and work together to co-raise children responsibly. The goal is not to have children survive divorce but to thrive.
However, many parents are so hurt, ... Views: 2335
Keeping an organized home can be a bit tricky if you have young ones around the house like I do. Some days it feels like you just cleaned up one room and a few minutes later it looks like the Terminator has been in there! But keeping your home clutter free can actually save you time because you ... Views: 2335
The movie “Knocked Up”: How realistic and how recommended is this relationship?
No surprise that the 2007 movie “Knocked Up” is a hit. The women of Generations X and Y especially recognize this increasingly familiar kind of relationship—the educated, successful and professional woman who ... Views: 2332
Q: How long should I wait before dating again after my divorce?
A: Most of us have heard this advice about looking for love after you've just ended a marriage or intimate partnership: "Don't jump from the frying pan into the fire." In other words, to avoid re-bound love, take time off from ... Views: 2329
Do you know the difference between projecting your voice and yelling? The latter hurts your throat and can be painful to your listeners’ ears. The latter also does not make your children sit up and take notice of what you are saying. Instead, they either cower in fear or stop listening to ... Views: 2322
It is common greeting among people to ask each other how are they when meeting, but when you are pregnant there is a meaning beyond the courtesy question: they really are enquiring to know how you are since so many things can happen during the joyous but possibly delicate state of pregnancy. The ... Views: 2322
Healthy Coping Skills are:
Knowing that we control our own lives: if we have a conflict or failure, we can change the situation. There is no such thing as a mistake. If we learn something from an experience, it is a lesson. If we cannot get what we want, we can make a situation the best it ... Views: 2320
It was the week before spending Christmas with my husband’s family and I was sick to my stomach. This had become the typical response when I was anticipating spending time with them. I had been dealing with their inappropriate behavior and my husband’s denial of the situation for a very long ... Views: 2317