Simona Rich is a writer and teacher who does astrological life assessments and writes about spirituality topics. She also has a large YouTube following and is active on Facebook. You can read more about Simona here.
If you are unhappy, it means you are too much self-involved. "Self-involved" means you are identified with the ego. Self-involvement means identification with your thoughts and beliefs. But those are not you.
To be happy, you need to step out of the personal self into the impersonal. Do not have relationship with the Self but just be. You can do that by staying present, being mindful of what's in the world rather than being lost in your mental content.