Lena Laursen, a sexologist, author, relationship educator, advice columnist and psychologist. She holds a Bachelor of Science in psychology from the University of Arizona. In addition to her original qualification, is also experienced in its psychotherapeutic aspects.
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Sexual Domination
As the result of our fight for women’s rights, men finally gave us the right to become presidents, as well ass to unscrew the lids of the jars. Yes, today’s woman is powerful and masculine, but sometimes, we still want to be feminine and give the men control of the situation. But the question is whether men know how to take the control? Smart women understand that this can only happen if we let him be a man.
A dominant woman is not necessarily sadistic and doesn’t wear leather clothes; neither carries a whip in her purse. Moreover, the majority of these women become dominate simply because the dominance was given to her by her man. And somewhere deep down they secretly want to be taken by force. They won’t submit, but want to be submitted. The following are some tips how to sexually take control over a dominant woman. Just make sure you are ready to be in charge in your bedroom.
Calm down her aggression
If you want to be the one who wears the pants, don’t turn into jelly when she starts to tear your clothes, throw you down and ride you like a wild animal. Show her that you are in charge now; it’s your time for throwing her down and tearing her clothes. If she struggles, don’t comply. Calm her down, gently but firmly. Once she finally gives up and give you the control, be ready for a sex marathon, as you have a horny dominate woman in your charge.
Take control of her moves
What is a typical sexual behavior of a dominant woman? Sure, she will grab you, pull you in for a deep kiss, then throw you, then pull you in again. In other words, she does what she wants. And she wants it all! Now! If you want to change the common scenario of yours sex play, it’s very important to state from the start who is making rules and who leads whom. So, if she starts kissing you grabbing your butt slowly remove her hands and put them on your waist, for example. As if saying her that you like her touching you but it’s all about pleasure not domination display. The sensation of having control taken away, combined with a sexy mutual exploration will make her panties soak in no time.
Stare her down
Remember the game that many of us played when being kids, who stared whom down won? You can use that helpful technique on your woman as well. A dominant woman knows how to look to have your sexual submission on her terms. She will look straight in your eyes until she sees the first signs of your giving in and letting her do whatever she wants. Don’t get yourself tricked into that play. Stare back, straight into her eyes and tell her that you want to fulfill some of your sexual fantasies, talk dirty to her, be firm and seductive. More likely she’ll be puzzled with that change in your behavior and look away, letting you stare her down. You won!
Have her beg for more
Your aim is to show your woman that she wants to be dominated, just don’t realizes it yet. What you should do is to turn her on so much that to make you beg. And begging is submission, total submission. Oral sex is the best way to reach your aim. Careless her clitoris, or tease her with a dildo, or vibrator until she starts moaning and then slow down for a while. Turn your attention to another area of her body. The obvious reaction of a dominant woman would be in giving you order to go on. But you are here not to execute orders, well, unless she begs for it. And she will beg, for sure.
If you follow these tips maybe, in time, you’ll learn how to control your dominant woman. And if you succeed in this you can take your sex life to a completely new dimension.
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