I'm Karl Withakay. I've been writing about dating and relationships since late 2005. You can view some of my articles at http://contributor.yahoo.com/user/3811/karl_withakay.html and http://manofthehouse.com/search?keyword=Karl+Withakay&page=1. I learned most of what I know through observation and giving advice on an internet relationship forum. It was there I saw what most women and men were complaining about concerning their relationships. It didn't take long to figure out just what most people want out of a relationship.