It’s time to address the unhealthy alliances you’ve formed and make a decision to heal the past. Not all relationships are dysfunctional, and not all of them will disappoint you. Don’t abandon yourself or the potential of finding love. You can connect to others in a healthy way once you recognize your patterns and consciously choose to interrupt any negative thoughts.

In every relationship, it’s important to be open to new experiences and learning new things. Letting go of rigidity is what’s required right now. Learning how to go outside of the normal and try approaching situations differently. It’s okay to come to a happy compromise—you can still get your needs met. Some of you may have met someone new who may not be your “type” but who turns out to be so special that you can easily release your old ideas about what sort of partner is right for you. Be flexible and you’ll be happy you made that choice.
Let others take the lead right now. Permit others to tell you who they are and who they can be to you by allowing their actions to speak about them. You will be pleasantly surprised. If you’re in a relationship that’s not going right, don’t chase after what flees from you. There is nothing romantic about what is unavailable, no rewards in giving yourself to another who can’t offer anything back. Now is the time to walk away. There are other goals and other loves waiting for you. Spirit only wants the best for you. This is a sign that you have something much better waiting for you. Trust.

Consider love in the deepest sense—love so powerful that you will never be the same, regardless of how long your relationship lasts. Consider friendships and romantic bonds so compelling that they overwhelm your spirit. Pay attention, to true love and how it presents itself. The only true way to identify love is with the love you show yourself. Spend some time in meditation and address your relationship with Spirit. Recognize that your partnership with Spirit is your number one priority. You are capable of finding love, but only when you decide to love yourself. Stop making excuses and accept nothing but the best for yourself.

Author's Bio: 

I am a spiritual intercessor, writer ,and alchemist who communicates with spirit guides to help assist you in your spiritual journey. I provide messages sent to me by the ancestors and angels who watch over you in your everyday life. They have a divine message for you and I am here to make sure you receive that message and live your best life through Spirit.