In life, you simply can not grow alone. Sooner or later you have to need a hand or others who support you in life. But sometimes, you came across a situation when no one is there to whom you can trust or ask for help, a moment of being alone. At that time you have to spend time with yourself and try to fix the things in your favor.

There is a difference between being lonely and to be alone. You can say you are lonely when you are isolated by the others. You are alone when it's your decision to stay alone with yourself, Because you feel like it's good for you.

Agree that loneliness welcomes negative thoughts, but being with yourself or being alone can also be a good decision of yours and give you a more insight in own self.
Fact is, in the hard time you get to know who is your True friend are.

Here are the positive side of being alone, and the good things happen in this time:

When you are alone you spend more time in your self improvement
Being alone doesn’t mean to be lonely, it simply means to stay with yourself only. When you prefer to be with yourself instead of wasting time at the party or night out with friends, you get time to evaluate yourself.

When you are with yourself you can evaluate yourself and plan for things that improve you as a person. Use your time in achieve your self improvement plan, you always delaying.

Being alone is time for yourself
When you stay alone with yourself, you simply get the time for you. You have given a so much your time to others who don't care for you. But it’s only you, with whom you spend most of your time in life.

By spending some time being alone, you live that moment truly with yourself, do things you wish to do in spare time . That few moments spent with yourself will give you a chance of self-evaluation and thinking about the good things in life.

Staying alone is opportunity to learn new skills
Spending time with yourself only, let you learn a something new which you need to. You can spend that Me-time for playing your instrument or reading books or learning new skills that you want to learn. So it's better to use that free time to use in a productive way and learn new things.

Moving alone boost your self confidence
Who knows you better than your own self. Spending some time with alone will let you realize things you have to work on. This will increase the mind powers of yours and also a thought-generating process.

You can take an example of the scientists and entrepreneurs who get their own strength when they are alone or left lonely.

Staying alone is best to stay away from negativity in life
It is always good to be surrounded by peoples with positive minds. But if you came across to those who have a negative approach towards life then is impact negativity to your life, too.

If you are not meeting the positive minds then So it’s better to stay alone rather than being with the wrong one. Now no more negative people and thinking,too.

When you are moving alone you can be better you because It’s you who motivate yourself than anyone else.

You feel Self-motivated when you move alone
No matter how much inspiring videos you watch or books you read. But ultimately it’s you who decide to follow that or not. Remember no one can inspire you if you yourself don't want to stand up.

Same as no one can stop you if you want to make it successful. So spending time with yourself with giving that self-motivating feeling and help you to be a better day by day.

You find that you have lot of saved times
Time spent with yourself will never be the waste. It is the time that you use for the productive way. This is the time you get to know a little bit more about you and your hidden strengths. If you haven’t spent that time then who gonna see that beast who rocked and shocked the world later on.

It’s always better to stay alone and be with you rather than to being with the wrong on and give them your time to waste. Stop wasting your time to make them understand what you are, they won't understand it.

When you move alone, You grow Better (Slow growth, but better than halt)
For personal growth, spending time with yourself is a must. Staying alone sometimes, and you can analysis yourself for the better one. You can plan your whole life things which you want to achieve.

You can plan your next day or weekends with the various things to get done.

By this time you can list out all the priorities you have in life and make whole charts to achieve them all. Ultimately the time to yourself simply give you time to create a road map that let you accomplish all your desires and goals.

Be with you, with your passion
You truly enjoy the time when you live your life in your own way and by moving alone. When you have time for you, you can utilize that for doing a work which you are passionate about.

You may create your own future business plan or spend quality time playing guitar or reading books. In Me-time you can do all the stuff you are passionate about and that lets you refresh your soul and get ready for your next projects.

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Ketan, a 20s guy a Life blogger. life lesson blogs, writing articles that are positive daily reminders to anyone who also in the same life stage. Aim to spread positive vibes and get inspiration.