Best is a relative term, depending on many variables. This makes our choices difficult. Always there should be only one consideration when making any decision. Am I stating who I am? Am I announcing who I want to be? All of life should be such, in fact, all of life is. We can do this by chance or by choice. When we live by choice, life is a conscious action. A life lived by chance is a life of unconscious reaction.

The reaction is just an action you have taken before. Reaction. When we re-act we assess incoming data, search our memory bank for the same or nearly the same experience and act the way you did before.
When you spend your time trying to figure out what’s best for you, you are doing just that spending your time. This is not creation, you are just re-acting. When you create an experience based on your now truth, rather than react to an experience based out of your past truth, you produce a new you.

Neil David Chan

Author's Bio: 

Neil David Chan is a spiritual thinker and a writer. His writing is mainly on evolving and growing and learning to become Another Way To Be Human.