***What Is Narcissism?

By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.

We are often asked, "What is the best definition of Narcissism of which you are aware?" For us, there is a simple answer. It is our strong belief that the Mayo Clinic has posited the best definition and it follows:

"Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental disorder in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance and a deep need for admiration. Those with narcissistic personality disorder believe that they're superior to others and have little regard for other people's feelings. But behind this mask of ultra-confidence lies a fragile self-esteem, vulnerable to the slightest criticism.

Narcissistic personality disorder is one of several types of personality disorders. Personality disorders are conditions in which people have traits that cause them to feel and behave in socially distressing ways, limiting their ability to function in relationships and in other areas of their life, such as work or school.

Narcissistic personality disorder treatment is centered around psychotherapy.

For those of you dating or married to someone who is narcissistic, we thought you’d like to know how destructive Narcissism can be.

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In love and marriage the simple things matter. Love well.

By Drs. Charles and Elizabeth Schmitz
America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.