Enthusiasm is one reason why new writers gets anything written at all. Misconception of what else is involved is what usually rattles their enthusiasm. It doesn’t have to be this way, though.
One reason I wrote the e-book, “Write, Get Published, and Promote,”** was because my ... Views: 751
Meaningful life lessons are sometimes derived from unusual or unsuspected methods and revealed many years later.
Recently, an image from when I was twelve years old came to mind. It was the first year a local elementary school held a weekend carnival. The usual junk food booths were there; but ... Views: 738
Ah...to live a dog’s life.
While in the park, I saw a young girl walking her miniature dog. Something caught its eye that I couldn’t see yet because shrubs blocked my view. The dog would surge forward, barking non-stop at the top of its miniature voice, and the leash would pull it back. I ... Views: 735
Do you know the quote, “If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten?” A preacher’s wife restated this in a way that made me take notice.
Once again, I woke and channel surfed to the early-morning religious program. A preacher interviewed his wife; and though I’ll ... Views: 733
We tend to think of time wasters as too much TV viewing, daydreaming, or anything that isn’t a productive use of minutes and hours.
Here are a few you may not have considered.
Gossip. What’s the point, really? Conveying needed information to the appropriate person or people is okay, but ... Views: 732
Musing about why people sometimes settle for less in their lives, I wondered if one cause might be because they (we) feel unprepared, unable, or afraid, for some reason, to give more?
Those who fit into the category of over-givers (usually poor receivers) might mutter at me as they read this, ... Views: 721
I did my daily practice of walking to the waterfront to sit on a bench and let go of thinking, as much as possible. My mind (like many others) is usually a-whirl with thought, so deliberately letting go for a period of time is beneficial. Then I decided to add something I never though of before: ... Views: 719
Confucius said, “It is better to light one small candle than to curse the darkness.”
Some might consider the quote’s candle a metaphor for the word “hope.” It could be that. It could also be trust in whatever we believe is larger than ourselves; a small action taken on our behalf as opposed to ... Views: 719
There’s all kinds of advice on how to write including
• You must write every day.
• Write in the same designated spot at the same time every day.
• Write for at least one hour every day.
• Get up early several mornings or every morning to write.
• You must have complete silence.
• You must eat ... Views: 716
I live in a quiet building in a quiet neighborhood. Awakened at 4:15a.m. by a racket, I couldn’t help but notice it was unusual. A couple was engaged in a squall and had no qualms about sharing it with neighbors when they took it into the hallway. Based on what I overheard, if that relationship ... Views: 701
It’s believed best not to look back to move forward; but if you do this wisely, it can make a difference.
Pick an issue . . . any current issue that has your attention by the, umm . . . balance point.
Underlying this issue is a belief you have about it, a belief that’s not serving you. Take a ... Views: 696
Mainstream comments and thoughts make it easy to think of the economy as something separate from individuals and communities, which is not true. Here are a few ideas about this.
My opinion is that the reason the economy appears as it does right now is because some forgot something basic: Many ... Views: 691
Are you a peach attempting to grow in a banana field instead of an orchard?
On a whim, I placed one of the extra copies of my book, “I Don’t Want to be Your Guru, but I Have Something to Say,” in the laundry room of my building. A woman I speak with every time we meet up was who found it, and ... Views: 690
You must fall in love with editing and rewriting or with your editor if you want what you write to be a good read for others. There really is no way around this. You can choose to improve your skills or you can choose to find a freelance editor you trust and work well with.
Some new writers ... Views: 683
The title of this article is the reality of writers culled down to five words. You want to see your article available online or in print or hold a copy of your book in your hands. The next desired reality is to see a response to all the energy, time, creativity, and passion you put into what ... Views: 679
“You don’t have to get it right you just have to get it going.” – Mike Litman
I’m a huge fan of this quote, and believe new or aspiring (and even experienced) writers can benefit by repeating it as often as needed. Wherever you are on your path as a writer, there’s a temptation to believe you ... Views: 678
The first step towards a balanced life is to become clear on what it is that you really want. If you’re like most people, you tend to think that what you want is a thing like a house or car, a relationship, a particular job, or—fill in the blank. You may believe if you have the thing(s) you ... Views: 672
Ever have one of those moments, events, or days when it appears if it can go wrong it seems to? Were you pleased with how you managed yourself, and the outcome?
The event was one I not only looked forward to, but carefully planned for. My handouts, business cards, and artificial bonsai tree ... Views: 671
A funny thing happened on the way to writing an article about Gratitude. I changed my consciousness.
For quite a while, I’ve been attaching "I am grateful for"in front of all of my affirmations. I had heard, and accepted, the words of others who spoke about the importance of gratitude. But ... Views: 668
Whatever you were writing, you’ve completed it. Are you really, actually, finally done? Not if you haven’t done this.
When I interact with new writers, they often have the misconception that because they’ve created something with a beginning, middle, and ending they’re done. They’re ready to ... Views: 668
An agenda that lists things to get done is terrific; but that's not the kind of agenda this article is about.
I recall being angry with someone, so angry in fact, that I harbored that feeling for a long time. My attention to this was triggered when I faced a particular challenge after the ... Views: 665
“A crisis only becomes a breaking point when we fail to use it as a turning point,” wrote Guy Finley recently. His words, words of others, and inspirational and funny videos that began to fill my in-box were responses to a silent request I made the other day when I came face-to-face with an ... Views: 663
This is a question my clients who are new and aspiring writers always ask me.
We write for different reasons: Enjoyment, challenge, and to share information or our creative effort. If you’re going to share what you’ve written, you’ll need a means or venue to get published. But you knew that, ... Views: 654
I once heard the affirmation, “I am always in the right place at the right time.” I added “with right action” at the end. I used it for the travel aspect in making my transportation connections and in general over this past weekend when I visited a friend.
I’d had a somewhat exhausting week and ... Views: 651
We love a good story, told well, that entertains us. But there are some who use stories for a different purpose: Justification for why they aren’t in control of themselves and, therefore, their lives.
I have a call scheduled with someone who wants to tell me her story. Basically, she hopes ... Views: 650
It may seem like we’re watching things crumble and tumble around us. What if we, even as and especially as individuals, now stand at the threshold of expanding our personal power and potential, no matter what? What if expanding this inner power is the very thing we should do? Are you ... Views: 645
Some of these simple tips may be familiar to you, and some may not. They can make or break your ability to be considered a serious writer by an agent, editor, or publication.
See if you practice these tips consistently. If not, choose to begin to.
• Use spell-check but don’t rely ... Views: 641
I don’t want to make a unilateral statement, but in my life, solutions are not always obvious. I recently read a parable many of you probably read a long while back called, “The Prisoner in the Dark Cave.”
A man sentenced to death is placed in a dark cave. He’s told there is a way out and if he ... Views: 636
“Bill, you asked me if I was just traveling or if I was on a journey. Aren’t they the same thing?”
“Not at all, A. J. Not at all.”
“And the difference would be...”
“When people are just travelin, they start out with the notion they’re gonna end up someplace by a certain time. They get ... Views: 630
Anytime you decide to write anything, whether it’s an article or a manuscript, you should congratulate yourself. Some people find writing easy, while others feel less sure about the process or their skills. Either type of writer is courageous. You know that when you write, especially if you ... Views: 627
Mid-January, I posted an article, “Success Really Does Come in Cans,” where I mentioned conversations with two individuals. One was a Can’t-Do person; the other was a Can-Do type.
I haven’t heard from the former, but I heard from the latter. She called to say she was utterly confused and ... Views: 623
Maybe what’s going on in the economy has nudged or forced you to consider how you can amp up every area of your business. Maybe this was on your mind before the shake-up, which has become a catalyst for shift sooner than later.
You’ve probably heard some say that this is actually a time of new ... Views: 618
“He who asks questions cannot avoid the answers.” Cameroon Proverb
My friend and I talked about what’s next for him. His story is, indeed, part of history. Years ago, he easily earned a million a year in the entertainment industry. Then his head and heart alignment about his work went out of ... Views: 617
You’re in the driver’s seat, cruising on the highway, headed to your next destination. The rules of safe driving recommend you occasionally glance at your rearview and side-view mirrors so you know what’s going on around you, but your primary focus is on what’s in front of you. It’s obvious you ... Views: 617
“You are old, Father William,” the young man said, “And your hair has become very white; and yet you incessantly stand on your head—do you think, at your age, it is right?” (From the works of Lewis Carroll)
George Berkeley said, “Our youth we can have but today. We may always find time to grow ... Views: 614
There are times when what others say or do triggers us and we feel a need to comment or even rant. Can we do this better, from a place of personal power? You bet.
Any time we speak about others, no matter what we say, we speak loudest about ourselves.
This realization came to me after a ... Views: 610
In the universe, matter and anti-matter exist. In equal amounts, they cancel each other out. If there’s a greater quantity of one than the other, that’s the one that “wins.” Though there are pockets of anti-matter in space, there are more elements of matter or nothing would exist.
A parallel ... Views: 610
During a conversation with someone who wishes to move out of a lifetime of negative behaviors and beliefs, I realized as she spoke, that what it takes for her to feel better is for something outside of herself to improve or indicate a circumstance is getting better. Anyone even minimally ... Views: 609
Maybe you’re like me and you’ve been diligent about letting go of limitations in an area or areas of your life. You’ve experienced and continue to experience the shift as a result of your focused thoughts, words, feelings, and actions.
Though I’ve been working with this for years (okay, ... Views: 608
Two days before I realized the New York City marathon is this weekend, I re-visited a technique I used back around the late 1980s, where I’d write or type questions and wait for answers to flow through my fingers. Neale Donald Walsch had the idea to share his use of this technique, and the rest ... Views: 607
I spoke with a friend who just started a new job she doesn’t like. She really wants to start her own business doing something she’s very good at and enjoys. It’s not a matter of figuring out what it may be, she already knows and has done it in the past.
During our conversation, she wanted to ... Views: 602
I use a three-day process when I feel or see a shift in my life and don’t want to jump without knowing where to jump. I state that between that moment and the end of the third day, I‘ll absolutely know what to do; and then I Put It Down, metaphorically, and do and think about other things.
This ... Views: 568
Choosing happiness when its not your habit is like the old joke about how you eat an elephant cone bite at a time.
A friend shared she finds it challenging to switch from negative, unhappy mode (usual habit) to positive, happy mode (preferred habit) and gets frustrated when she feels anything ... Views: 567
The New Year is around the corner and a time we consider new beginnings or fresh starts in one or more areas of our lives. A good way to get into this is to see if there’s any outer or inner clutter that holds us back.
Outer
*Do you search for items you use every day like keys? How much time, ... Views: 520
Recently, I read an article that was based on questions stated by two lead characters in a movie. The male lead was fretting over changes and pending changes in his life, and kept saying to his wife, “What if it all goes wrong?” Her response was always, “What if it all goes right?”
I’d had a ... Views: 506