Let me be completely honest with you…

Living with me is not easy…

I don’t want to do what normal people do…

I have offended incredible numbers of extended family members because I don’t want to clean up, cook, pick up the pieces behind them or do any of the things they think I should willingly do…

I would rather go live in a hotel than have to put up with people’s expectations of what they think I should do because they gave me a bed for a night…

I do not notice things that most women are supposed to notice…

And even if I did notice them, I probably do not want to do anything about that silly domestic issue…

I have more important work to be getting on with…

When hanging out with a couple, I mostly hate being expected to hang out with the woman if their version of conversation is to talk about the home and their kids and ‘submitting’ to their husband’s vision and all of that nonsense…

It is tedious, boring and I can only put up with it for a VERY LITTLE while before the anti-social in me kicks in and I take myself off or just never attend again…

I spend more money on my coach than most people get paid in a year…

I refuse to allow funds to be the reason that I do not get the results I want…

I refuse to let fear of debt hold me back from investing in myself…

I KNOW I am my best investment and I don’t just talk about it, like some of them coaches without any coaches themselves! I actually believe enough in myself to invest more than I currently make so that I can get to the next level for me…

My poor hubby has to put up with a lot of stuff from me too…

I am not ‘THAT’ wife and will never be…

I am not going to iron shirts, trousers or always have food on the table at 630pm…

I tried that for about… let me see… one week and decided ‘neh’, that does not work for me!

And I just say ‘NO’ when I don’t want to do whatever it is he wants from me, either…

I know it can be pretty frustrating loving me…

But well, those are the breaks!

I still remember an aunt of mine saying I was so blessed to not have married a Nigerian dude as he would be beating me! (As if I would be sitting there, waiting for that lunatic to beat me! – Nope, not me!)

And you know what?!

I am proud of all of that…

I have finally come into myself and I refuse, PLAIN OLD REFUSE to go back to living to please anyone more than I please myself…

Call me selfish…

Call me self-centred…

Call me whatever you like but guess what, I get a lot more done than you!

It is that simple…

While you quietly long to have the courage to just say ‘no’ to things that you don’t want to do…

And while you openly think and possibly even say that I am just too selfish for words…

I am getting more and more intimate with the Source of all wealth, wisdom and abundance and my life is led by Spirit…

I am building an empire that will change the life of at least 2000 Compassion Children, possibly more…

I am spending more time with my immediate family because I am not spending my spare time trying to clean my house…

I am not beating myself up with guilt about all the time I do not spend with my princesses (and that was a hard won battle!)…

I am travelling more with my family…

I am having awesome sex with my hubby now because I no longer feel I HAVE TO, I now choose to…

I do not spend that much time with anyone that tries to stifle me or drains my energy…

And that means I have a lot more time to spend doing the things I want to do…

More time on my calling…

More time listening in and obeying the voice of Spirit in my heart…

More time doing all the things that you dream of doing one day in the future, if you do not die first!

Because honey, you only have so many days to live the right life for you…

And all your sacrifice, all the time you put everyone first before you and your desires…

All the time you refused to spend working out what you are here on this planet to do…

All of that time is eating into the time you have, to do the work you are born for.

And that, honey, is selfish.

That is a TRULY selfish way to live…

That you would choose to live a small life of no impact at all because you are too afraid to actually figure out what you are on this planet to do… IS SELFISH!

That you would allow your fear of people control you in this way is truly silly!

That you would allow your fear of the unknown to keep you stuck in a life you do not like much is CRAZY!

That you would deliberately turn your nose up to the abundant life your creator has perfectly suited you for… is APPALLING!

Because right now, you too could be building an empire to rescue children being sold into slavery…

To stop hunger in some third world country somewhere…

To save an engangered species if that is your thing ( Not sure why it would be, but hey, you might be that person!)

You could be making connections to get your political career off the ground so that you can change things from the inside instead of complain about them while doing absolutely nothing!

You could be doing any number of things with the limited time you have on the planet and instead, you are cooking, cleaning, doing DIY, being Mum’s Taxi, cutting the lawn, visiting relatives you hate, doing a job you despise and so on…

All to maintain the status quo!

All to keep the peace!

What a pile of nonsense!

And this is the thing…

I KNOW YOU!

For all your talk about how selfish people like me are, there is a part of you that longs to be more like people like me…

You long to be more…

You may not be ready to admit it completely but you KNOW that it is true!

And you have tried all the ways that ‘norms’ try and you aint getting anywhere fast…

And you are ready for change…

You are ready to question some of your ways and thoughts etc…

You have your best work to do and you are ready to get on with it…

And if that really is you, then you and I need to talk…

Spirit, Sex Success is coming back for round 2 and I invite you to explore new ways of thinking and being, and no, I do not need you to agree with everything I say, I will teach you how to hear for yourself the best way to move forward and more than anything, it is the one to one work that will bring about transformation…

Find out more and join the waiting list at RosemarynonnyKnight.com/spiritsexsuccess

Leader, it is time to fight for, and deliberately design the life you are born to live…

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Rosemary Nonny Knight used to be a pharmacist and then decided to do her own thing and gain freedom. She made it happen with real estate management and now shows others how to set up their own business and get those first few customers online