One of the great things about doing what I do is that while I’m teaching, showing, helping someone to move forward in their life I’m also getting my own insights. Which is of course truly beneficial and it then enables me to give even more.

I am always learning not just from my sessions with clients but also reading, listening, and going on workshops, seminars, courses.

What seems to have been coming up an awful lot over the past few weeks has been about letting go and trusting.

Letting go of the past, forgiving everyone especially one’s self and trusting in the Universe (god, The Spirit, whatever your name is) to look after you.

A tall order I know and it can be so difficult but it does work.

When you open to trusting and ‘going with the flow’ everything starts to fall into place.

I liken it to using the Satnav to somewhere you’ve never been before. You get in the car, putting in the address and just follow the directions. That way you get there safely. In time. Feeling relaxed because all you’ve had to worry about is the driving. You’ve enjoyed the journey. However when you think you know the route better than the Satnav and follow your own directions sometimes you can get lost, tired, frustrated!!

Life is like that – if we go against what is ‘right’ for us then we end up tired, stressed, frustrated and sometimes lost.

Ever been in a situation where you’ve made a decision and it doesn’t sit right? You feel ‘uncomfortable’ ‘uneasy’. Whereas if you make a decision that you ‘instinctively’ know is the right one for you – everyone benefits don’t they? And you feel great about it.

When we go with the flow –we can take time to enjoy the journey. The reaching of the destination (the goals) can be enjoyable.

When you can see the bigger picture you can understand that life is the funniest game you’ll ever play. If you take it too seriously you end up miserable, not enjoying what is going around you Seriousness is a dis-ease to the soul.

If we allow ourselves to trust and believe that only good will happen to us, then that is exactly what we will get – ONLY GOOD.

“The game of life is a game of boomerangs. Our thoughts, deeds and words return to us sooner or later with astounding accuracy” Florence Scovel Shim

I’m not saying that life is going to be perfect or a bowl of cherries; Or that you have to stop being responsible and paying your mortgage and your bills but it’s the attitude, the beliefs of living in our own little ‘dramas’.
And of course there will be stuff that comes up because that’s life for you.

But allow yourself to accept the bumps; it’s ok; that’s what life is about; dealing with them in a positive frame of mind knowing that the outcome will be the best possible one for all concerned will enable you to come out of it stronger , wiser and more ‘comfortable’. Not stressed, tired, frustrated because you’ve worked against the forces.

If it’s something you can’t control, or it’s someone else’s ‘deal’ ask yourself what is the worst case scenario. Then plan for that. I guarantee that the worst will not happen because it so rarely does.

We spend so much worrying about ‘what ifs’ that we forget to live in the now.

The point of power is in the present moment.
What you are thinking about in this time will become true for you tomorrow.
If you think lack and scarcity, that’s what you’ll get
If you think positive, abundance, fun, love, laughter, good stuff – that’s what you will get.
It’s the most important rule of Life.

You have to say ‘YES’ to Life.
Be open to all the wonderful things that can turn up, seemingly out of the blue.
Just saying ‘YES’ to who you are, what you are, how you are and what is going on in your life.

Start to believe that you are a truly wonderful being, that you can create whatever it is you want in your life.

And when you start believing and acting as if you believe, then miracles will occur in your life.
You will see the results.

You have the power inside you to do that
You need to train yourself to believe and to let go of the outcomes.
To allow the Universe to ‘take care of it’

Often when there is stuff going on in my life that I can’t ‘control’; I’ll just say ‘let it go’ (and I’ll ‘tap’ on that) ( for those of you who don’t know EFT – Emotional Freedom Technique – or Tapping – acupuncture without the needles – is an amazingly powerful system for getting rid of blocks)
So yes I ‘tap’ on what’s going on and I send it to the Universe and just say ‘well you deal with it’ and

So that’s what you have to do
Say ‘Yes’ to Life
Free your mind from limitations
Let the Universe deal with it
You just enjoy your journey

“You were born with Potential. You were born with Goodness and Trust. You were born with Ideals and Dreams, You were born with Greatness. You were born with Wings. You were not meant for crawling, so don’t! You have wings, learn to use them and Fly!” Rumi

I can help you ‘learn to fly’. To live to your True Potential. Why do it on Your Own.
Let me Be Your SATNAV I'll mentor and guide you while you concentrate on the driving and the journey
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Author's Bio: 

I've been on my own personal development journey for many years, discovering, learning and studying with some of the very best experts in their fields.
I’ve always worked in a people environment helping and advising so it seemed a natural progression for me to move from that to becoming a personal development coach.
I believe very much that unless you re-programme your negative beliefs and thoughts you'll never 'move on' and that could be with relationships, weight loss, health, career, money.
Using the very powerful and effective processes of EFT, NLP, Hypnosis, and Theta Healing, I motivate and steer people toward living the lives they want rather than what they 'should' or been told to. This gives them the opportunity to truly live the life they deserve.
I believe that what we put out there we get back and the only way to improve our lives is by ‘reprogramming’ our mindset.
The 3 greatest internal blocks people have are fear, self doubt and procrastination. When we release those we can be, do, have whatever it is we truly desire.
Like a computer when the 'hardware' isn't congruent with the 'software' no advancement can be made when we are out of sync; and it's the same with our brains. If we say one thing – and believe in our subconscious something totally, different we’ll never make the changes we think we want. Our thoughts and beliefs are what makes us tick so whatever the issue whether it’s relationships, work/career, money, self esteem, confidence; I help people look at what is holding them back and help them release those ties enabling them to go forward with whatever it is they desire. . But it can be a very painful process, the letting go, and people have to be ready and willing to make the changes. Affirmations are wonderful tools but useless without that one major ingredient – Action!
Once you take the Action, are consistent and make the commitment – YOU make it happen
With Persistence plus Confidence YOU equal Success
My greatest joy is seeing the transformation when someone releases their blocks and moves forward.