Whether you like hanging out in bars or not, there's no question that they're one of the best places to
pick up girls. Picking up girls in bars is easy if you know how to approach them the right way. Keep in mind that hot girls get approached by men constantly at bars, so you've got to make an original approach that distinguishes you from all the others. (My book "Mack Tactics" contains an entire chapter on approach tactics, and gives you clever & wickedly effective openers to use in virtually any situation.).
With that said, here are some tips on
how to pick up girls at bars:
1. Before leaving your house, you need to make sure that you look great. You certainly don't need to be tall and well-built to attract women, but you absolutely must be clean, well-dressed and most importantly well-groomed. First impressions are important, after all. Wear nice clothes, brush your teeth, comb your hair, etc. Also, your scent should be attractive; this means get rid of the cheap cologne and start wearing the good stuff (I like Calvin Klein and Bulgari, personally)..
2. From the moment you want into the bar to start picking up girls, you should project confidence. Even if you're shy and nervous, you still need to pretend to be confident. Body language is extremely important; don't slouch, and keep your head held high. Make eye contact with women. Don't only try to interact with the hot girls you want to hook up with; start friendly interactions with other women as you "warm up" and get a feel for the crowd. A lot of other guys in the bar will probably be nervous too, although some are better than hiding it than others. Even if you're faking a good deal of your confidence at this point, you've going to have more success picking up girls than the guys who can't get a handle on their nervousness.
3. Picking up girls at bars means you might have to approach them. Unless you're lucky and they approach you first, you are going to have to overcome your shyness and go up to them. Women usually go to bars with their friends, so don't be intimidated about approaching a group of women and engaging them in a conversation. Smile, deliver your opener, and then transition into your first topic of conversation (when you use "Mack Tactics," the process should be a seamless flow). If she (or the group) is not receptive, don't try to force it. Just move on to another prospect. And stop worrying about being "rejected," would you? Tell yourself that there are two types of women in this bar tonight: FUN and BORING. The fun girls will want to talk to you, because you're a fun guy; the boring girls won't want to, but they're boring anyway so who cares. This is an important attitude to take when you're out to pick up girls at bars. And when approaching girls who are in a group, be equally charming to all of them. Don't make it obvious which girl in the group is your target.
4. My next piece of advice: stay positive during the conversation. She should associate you with FUN and POSITIVITY, not negativity or boring/depressing topics (such as talking to her about your exes, breakups, etc. Remember, she didn't spend two hours earlier tonight doing her hair and makeup, and selecting her outfit, so that she could out to a bar and be be bored and depressed. She came here tonight to have fun. If you can provide her with that, she'll want to hang out with you.
5. When your mission is to pick up girls, you can't be overly loud or aggressive (especially towards other guys, even if you view them as "the competition". It's cool to enjoy yourself and be energetic, but don't be the "spaz" who gets on people's nerves (or even worse, the drunk guy who can't handle his alcohol). Don't drink anymore alcohol than you can handle. But when it comes to picking up girls in bars, you shouldn't let yourself become too drunk.
6. Pay careful attention to the people around you, and the social interactions of others. Listen to what girls say in bars and pay attention to everything that they do. When you identify a target (a girl you want to approach), don't rush in and approach the girl right away; spend a few minutes observing her and her body language. If you can hear what she's talking about (with her friends, or with the guy who approached her), you may hear something that you can bring up during your own conversation with her. So, slow down your pace and don't worry about "making your move" the moment you see an attractive girl. Think like a chess-player and always have your next several moves plotted out in your mind. Becoming a master at picking up girls requires patience, discipline, and most of all PRACTICE.
These were a few basic rules about how to pick up girls. If you want to learn a ton of great FREE openers to use on women, download the free Mack Tactics guide by clicking here:
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