Self Esteem Continued
To me, self esteem is the most important possession a human being can have. We were born innocent, and the lowering of self esteem occurred through life experiences and over time.
They key point, we were born with self esteem and it still exists within all of us, but with many, it is driven deep into the subconscious and must be “relocated”.
Please read a quote from an “Idea Engineer” piece written by my friend and mentor Dr. Randin Brons:
“The basis for having a strong sense of self-esteem is to replace our unconscious idea of basic unworthiness with a conscious knowing of our fundamental inherent goodness. As Matthew Fox argues in Original Blessing, the notion of 'original sin' must be replaced with the truth of 'original blessing.'

Being in touch with our essential goodness, we can see the essential goodness in others as well.”
"Beliefs separate. Loving thoughts unite." -- Paul Ferrini
Why do people seek coaches or other methods of self improvement? Above is the true answer.
I have not worked with a person in my coaching practise or in “service” work that has started the process with even reasonable self esteem on a conscious level. A goal with just about everyone I work with to re-establish a loving relationship with self. From there, anything is possible. Without healthy self esteem the future has major limitations.
Look in that mirror and see if you consciously love the person you see. If work is needed, take action, don’t wait; it does not get better on its own! ( (

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Master Certified Coaching coaching people with the courage to invest in themselves because they think they MIGHT be worth it!