Personal development by learning positive self talk

Have you ever wonder the reasons why some people are optimistic and some are pessimistic? The powerful influence that impacts one’s attitude and personalities is what you say to yourself and believe it. It is not what happens to you, but it is how you react internally to the happening. Do you know that the way you talk to yourself will determine your feeling and emotion, and eventually establish your action? If you can learn to develop an effective and positive way to talk to yourself, you will have more control in every aspects of your life.

Take a few minutes to ponder over, whenever you meet some obstacle in your life, what did say to yourself? It is very important on the word you used to describe the situation because it will determine quality and tone of your emotional life. When you begin to see things in a positive and constructive way, always seeking for the good in any situation, you will tend to be more positive and optimistic. So keep thinking of what you want and keep your mind off on what you do not want or fear.

In life, we are always faced with challenges and problems and sad to say that this is unavoidable. But if you treat every problem as a challenge to grow yourself and respond effectively to it, you will become a stronger man. Successful people tend to have more obstacles than normal people but the way they respond to it make empowered after every hurdles. So the ability to achieve success depends on the way we deal with life.

What is the difference between an optimist and pessimist?
Optimist sees a setback or failure as temporary, while the pessimist sees it as permanent. Always ask yourself one question whenever you are hit with a setback, “Will it affect you one year later?” If not, why not move on? So ask yourself, “Are you a optimist or pessimist?”

To maintain a positive attitude and mindset, it all boils down to the method you talk to yourself on a regular interval. We must always react to problem by changing it from negative to positive. Why? Since our sub-conscious can only hold one thought at a time, why not we choose the positive thought in order to be more constructive?

In practicing positive self talk, you should keep your words and mental visualization consistent with your goals and targets, in this way, there is nothing that can stop you from the success you meant to have.

Author's Bio: 

“Succeed does not come to you, you have to go to it” Using this philosophy, I decided to create this self help website to push myself to achieve self empowerment and also to motivate all of my friends out there who are reading and staying with me throughout this empowering journey.

More about me…
I am born in the island of Millionaires, guess where? It is Singapore, just a little tiny ret dot in the world but had achieved incredible results in a short 30 years with the highest percentage of millionaires here. Do you want to be a Millionaire? “Of course!” is the reply of most people but how many people can achieve it? You might be telling yourself that all these millionaires are either born with a silver spoon in their month with wealthy parents or just that they are very lucky to be successful. “How lucky they are? How I wish I have what they I have?”

I can tell you here, “You are wrong!” How do you define luck? For me, I will define luck as “LUCK = OPPORTUNITY + ACTION”. So I will always bear this in mind and getting prepared for the opportunity and take massive action when it arises. This will be the mindset of the millionaire.

For me, I might not be a millionaire now, but working progressively towards this goal. “Dream big and take baby steps” is my strategy. My ultimate goal is to achieve personal growth and financial growth. With this strong desire in mind, I am taking action every day to empower myself to change my mindset from a victim to winner one.

Remember this in mind, “You will never FAIL unless you QUIT”.

Do join me in this enriching journey and empower yourself to achieve anything you want in life.