“Coaching is unlocking a person’s potential to maximize their own performance. It is helping them to learn rather than teaching them.” – Timothy Gallwey

Thought + Dream + Goal + turn into Reality = Mastermind

You have worked hard on your journey to discovering the lovable “Me”. You have learned to be grateful, forgive, not taken on others opinions, to believe in yourself, embrace all that is perfect about you. You have battled your inner child and put her in her place, and have empowered your inner being to raise its voice to be heard. You have learned tools to help you make better choices and you have learned to tackle challenges as a positive. You have self -filled yourself with positive affirmations and positive attitudes. You have celebrated all your accomplishments no matter the size of each one. You have completed the four corner stones (positive affirmation, achievements, celebrations, not wearing the labels of others) of the foundation to building “The House of The Lovable You.”

So now what do you do with your new wonderfully fabulous moxie self? You have to take this authentically perfect you and start you on your new path to discovering all the treasures that are there for you to embrace. You have built the foundation and walls to the “House Of The Lovable You” now you need to put a strong roof and good glass into the windows. When you back on all your hard work you can reflect and look into the future with a stable covering to protect all your hard work.

The answer is to find a mastermind and together form the connection needed to see through to fruition all your dreams and goals that are for you to achieve. You are ready to see everything that is rightfully yours become realities.

You ask, what is a Mastermind? A mastermind is a highly intelligent person, especially one who plans and directs a complex or difficult project. By connecting yourself with a person of such power and intelligence, you create alike-minded energy that is many, many times greater than the sum of the energies of the two individuals involved.
The connection between you and the mastermind will result will result in a dramatic, positive change in your life, and you will experience a happy and successful way of life.

Life is challenging enough without having to create and achieve your goals all on your own. The truth is that very few people, if any, can actually do that. The pathway to self-love is paved with people who are ready to help you in your mission to become the most perfect authentic you.
Throughout history, the most successful people of all time have surrounded themselves with teams of people who support their vision and mission. Even coaches use a team of coaches to accomplish their goals and visions. They stay on the tract set before them with a team of support and mentors that they have attracted on their life’s journey.
Mastermind groups come in two basic forms: One, which is focused on the success and vision of one individual, and one that is focused on helping everyone in the group. To create a mastermind group, you simply reach out to people in your network and explain to them that you are seeking their help as an adviser and part of your mastermind team.
You’d be surprised at how willing many people are to help when asked, since it is an honor to be asked for an advice or an opinion.

While I journeyed through my own time with my mastermind, I could not help but notice the phenomenon that was created on this journey. This phenomenon is referred to as the “third mind.” There is an opening script to each mastermind session that utilizes 7 very magical words – release, believe, understand, decide, forgive, ask, and accept!

I Release – I release myself to the mastermind because I am strong when I have others to help me.

I Believe – I believe the combined intelligence of the mastermind creates wisdom far beyond my own.

I Understand – I understand that I will more easily create a positive results in my life when I am open to looking at myself, my problems and my opportunities from another point of view.

I Decide – I decide to release my desire totally in trust to the mastermind and I am open to new possibilities.

I Forgive – I forgive myself for the mistakes I have made. I also forgive others who have hurt me in the past so I can move into the future with a clean slate.

I Ask – I ask the mastermind to hear what I really want; my goals, my dreams and my desires, and I hear my mastermind partners supporting me in MY fulfillment.

I Accept – I know, relax and accept, believing that the working power of the mastermind will respond to my every need. I am grateful knowing this is so.

At first these words and mantra were just that – words and a mantra. I took them at face value but trusted my coach enough to see where they would lead me. And they lead me to where I am today.

I learned to release my self openly to the energies and ideas that mastermind has to share with me. I started to believe that whatever the third mind came up with, as a goal would happen because I was open to the possibility; your ability to create things in the world is increased by having that invisible “third mind” of the mastermind group.
It took a while but I finally came to the understanding that by looking at “me” from outside of the box and through another point of view. Once these three things started to take shape I decided to release my desires and wishes totally to the power of the mastermind and then my world stated to change and take the shape of what I had always wanted it to look like. – I finally knew what I wanted to be when I grew up.

Learning to forgive others and myself was hard at first but once I embraced it, I found it the easiest thing to do in the world. Plus forgiveness keeps you firmly in the present.; letting me move forward. To ask for anything in life was not in my nature. I was a "do-it-yourselfer". I had to learn to ask for what I wanted as the universe is there to listen and give what abundance it has to deliver you all for “the ask.”

After weeks of working with my mastermind, I now accept that all I ever want in this universe is mine. I am open to all possibilities and I embrace the energies and power of the third mind. I have traveled far in this journey and I am so glad to have had the wisdom and trust to follow into a mastermind course so that I can be all that I truly want to be – me!

I discovered that you really don't know what you don't know. If you allow the space in your mind to be open and receiving, even to ideas that don't make sense to you, then you can create endless new possibilities.
If you keep taking the same action with the same thinking, you will continue to manifest the same results. Ready to switch up and realize your dreams?
Finding a mastermind you can surrender to and embrace the wisdom and knowledge is a chance for transformation in your business and personal life! Get out of the box and see yourself from another point of view.

“No two minds ever come together without, thereby, creating a third, invisible, intangible force which may be likened to a third mind.” Napoleon Hill

“Our chief want in life is someone who will make us do what we can.” – Emerson

Author's Bio: 

Tamara Elizabeth is a certified self love and transformational coach and Master Motivator of women in transition. She empowers women to look into the mirror and reflect the fabulously lovable selves. She is the author of an inspirational book for women titled,” Fabulously Fifty and Reflecting It! –Discovering My Lovable Me. All women are invited to join her as a guest on her radio talk show – Talk To Tamara Today. This is a platform where women in transition and professionals coaching them have a chance to share their journeys and learn from others how to heal their wounds and jump back into the ring. She strives to find the humor in life and you will find your experience very positive – the ride of your life.