Making Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back - Make It Happen-New Ideas. If you want to find out how to get your Ex Boyfriend back then it all centers on making your Ex Boyfriend want you back. You also have to find out how to understand male psychology and what he thinks about you after the break up.

A complete solution to help you get your ex back into your life is provided at the end of this write-up (Author's Bio), meanwhile let's build the foundation.

When you are trying to make your Ex Boyfriend want you back it can often feel like you are hitting your head against a brick wall. A lot of the time women are doing the exact opposite of what they should be doing and end up pushing your Ex Boyfriend further and further away. It is not your fault if you think that this is happening to you too. None of us were taught how to attract and keep men at school, it is a skill that you learn over time and with experience.

Some women know exactly how to make men want them and they manage to keep long term relationships easily. You can also have the same success with men if you begin to understand what makes them tick. If you want to make your Ex Boyfriend want you back then you will have to do a little homework first. This is what this article plans to teach you.

Making your Ex Boyfriend want you back by staying away from your Ex Boyfriend
This piece of advice may seem extremely counter-intuitive but it works. The quickest and most effective way to stoke desire in your Ex Boyfriend is to disappear from his vision from a while. This may be impossible for you if you work together or have the same classes. If this is the case then you will have to use another tactic. Never initiate any kind of contact with your Ex Boyfriend or look at him. He will be looking for signs that you are not over him after your break up, so any kind of interest that you show in your Ex Boyfriend will boost his male pride.

When you use no contact with your Ex Boyfriend he will be surprised and not expect it, this is the secret to making your Ex Boyfriend want you back and chase after you. He will think that you should be chasing your Ex Boyfriend and wanting his attention at the very least. When you do not give your Ex Boyfriend this but act as if you do not care instead, it will shock your Ex Boyfriend and make him start to question whether or not you liked him at all. This may sound like a cruel thing to do to your Ex Boyfriend, but you are not really doing anything nasty here, you are just allowing his mind to go into overdrive and stoke his interest in you again.

It is important to note however that you should not be rude to your Ex Boyfriend if he tries to start a conversation with you. Always smile politely and be open to talking to your Ex Boyfriend, but don't ask your Ex Boyfriend any questions. It is best to just respond to his questions instead and keep the conversation as short as possible. Say something nice or encouraging, but let your Ex Boyfriend know that you are late for something or busy. You do not want to cut off all attempts of communication at this stage or he will feel like he can't approach you again.

Making your Ex Boyfriend want you back by being mysterious
He fell for you in the first place because he thought that you were special or different. Think back about what he liked about you at the start and then begin to rediscover these qualities about yourself. When you start taking an interest in an old hobby or take up a new pastime he will soon notice the change in you. It will also help keep your mind of the break up and help you to focus. When you have nothing to do you are much more likely to contact your Ex Boyfriend and end up making a fool of yourself.

Being aloof doesn't necessarily mean that you have to be rude to your Ex Boyfriend. Just keep really busy and seem like you have a packed schedule. Another thing that you should do to maintain the air of mystery is to stay of social networking sites like Facebook for a while. He will probably be checking your profile to see what you are up to, but you don't want your Ex Boyfriend to know everything about your life. It was he who decided to walk out of your life after all, he can't have it all his own way.

When you update your profile constantly or give away too much information about yourself, you will only be giving your Ex Boyfriend all that he needs and then he will not have to contact you to ask what you are doing. You will not be giving your Ex Boyfriend the chance to miss you either if you are constantly there in the virtual world. Disappear from his radar and he will soon be eager to contact you and be much more likely to make your Ex Boyfriend want you back.

Being mysterious has a lot to do with being interesting. If you are the type of girl who divulges everything over Facebook to everyone then this will do you no favours in the mystery department. To be alluring your have to hold something back. You have seen it yourself, people who constantly update their profiles wreak of desperation. You do not want your Ex Boyfriend to see you as pathetic or desperate.

Your Next Step
These are only two effective suggestions that will increase your chances of getting your Ex Boyfriend back, it does not stop here however. There are many more things that you should be doing to make your Ex Boyfriend want you back and chase after you again.

You will also have to work out what your chances are by reading the signs he still likes you. There are some clues that guys give off after a break up and it is important to know where you stand before you do any thing else. It will take a little patience and time, but once you see how differently he responds to you, it will give you the impetus to stick at it!

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Author's Bio: 

Hi, I am Vanessa Moore, a relationship coach specializing in breakups and dating.

On my website you will find the complete guide to bring your ex back to you, here's the link again: How To Make Your Ex Want You Back

Wish you godspeed...