MARVELOUS MYSTERY OF LOVE
For a long time I have been dwelled in understanding this mystery.

FAHM O SHAOOR
Really love is beyond all the so-called fahm o shaoor. Fahm o shaoor means the realizing of wiseness in Urdu. It means the realization of wiseness or in this case a greater realization about love. Fahm o Shaoor means the way of understanding.

LOVE IS …
Love is so indescribable. It's a feeling that you've come home. It's this thing called love!

LOVING LARGE
It's bigger than us, isn't it?

TWO BECOME ONE – I BECOMES YOU
There comes a point (may be in everyone of us Life) when "I" vanishes totally. When all you think is in terms of "You". Yes it’s continuous "Giving".

TRANSFORMATION
Love is the strongest and most fulfilling emotion possible. It lets you share your goals, your desires, your experiences. It lets you share your Life with Someone. It lets you Be Yourself with someone who will always Support you. It lets you speak your innermost feelings to someone who Understands you. It lets you feel tenderness and warmth - a wholeness that avoids Loneliness.

UTTER COMPLETENESS
Love lets you feel Complete. Wow what an ideal paradise ♥ :)

VALUABLE VALUES
Values do play an important role in love too. When we live in a society we are bound with some norms and values which definitely determine our mode of action. Love with Respect and Keeping your integrity at the highest height have an impact.

LIVING LOVE
Everyone wants to spend life time with ONE they love, but there comes some point when may be you are not able to spend the life with the one you love or may be s/he is already in a committed relationship, then all you can do is offer your best possible [wishes, blessings, love] but never drag them to cut their knots with their dear ones or responsibilities.

DANGEROUS LIAISONS
Don’t snatch happiness of others. Just give them freedom. As you only lose whatever you cling to.

NO SIDES
In response to the concept of one-sided love - Love is just Love, not one two three sided but If you start to feel rejected, devalued and unfulfilled then it’s all about perspectives.

HUGGING CACTUS
Loving someone who doesn’t love you back is like hugging a cactus. The tighter you hold on, the more it’s going to hurt.

POSSESSION
Again comes the thing of Possessing or holding. The solution is Freedom.True Love is the Ultimate Display and Test of both Detachment and Bonding, Strength and Vulnerability, Closeness and Letting Go and in that Each are able to step into the Fullness of who they are.

DO YOU WANT LOVE?
And in the end Iif you want Love, Offer Love without all plans and Conditions.

NO TESTS PERIOD
Never Test your beloved as it’s Insult of Love.

NOT ALL CAN TRULY LOVE
Love is never Enough and only Some blessed hearts can offer Love, Respect and Giving.

EGOLESS
Loving heart doesn’t have any Ego. As when you keep on feeding this so-called EGO, you have less Love to offer.

BLESSING
May all of you and yours find this mystery to the ultimate joy. May you never find any conflict when you come face to face with Love. Aameen.

P.S
I am sure I can write million more words and Yet I will find all not enough, so Let the Love remains as it is. Who are me, you and We to dive into this Ocean when we don’t have enough skills for swimming in this "Aag Ka Darya"

PPS
Aag Ka Darya – means river of fire, oceans of fire. In other words the ups and downs of life, the ebbs and flows, the highs and low – the unruly nature of life with all its vicissitudes.

Author's Bio: 

An I CAN READ English specialist with over 20 years teaching experience, I have worked in the British Council and Linguaphone, well-known language institutions. I am a London-trained lawyer and have been the public affairs officer at the British High Commission, Singapore, as well as an editor in an international book publishing house and a national magazine. In 2006, I was appointed as an Ambassador of Peace (Universal Peace Federation and Interreligious and International Federation for World Peace). I am also co-author of two law books: English Legal System and Company Law, published by Blackstone, Oxford University Press. For enquiries about I CAN READ classes, email susanmckenzie2003@yahoo.co.uk. FOR DAILY BLESSINGS: www.abetoday.com