The reason why many people are not so happy with their lives is that they are not yet living the good life that they wish to live. Most people miss out on the reason why they are living in this world. There is just too much focus on minor things that people think should be on top of the list. Sometimes, we dwell so much on something that should be left alone. We spend too much time on something that is not worth our time.

Being happy in this world has become a harder feat for many people. There are financial difficulties to deal with, bills to pay, and so much more. We end up thinking about the problems before going to sleep so we sleep with these problems inside our heads. In the morning, instead of feeling fresh, we do not feel it because of the problems from the night before.

In order to be happy in this life, there are some simple things that you can do. If you want to be happy, you should really focus on things that will make you happy such as positive things. To be happy, you have to change your state of mind. Only you can have control over your thoughts. You can direct what you want to think in order to be happy. By simple changing your outlook and thinking in life, you are already on your way to being happy for a long time.

Staying relax and being happy is a personal choice that you alone can make. We hear the song Don’t Worry Be Happy which teaches us a few things about being positive and happy. The melody of the song alone is already light. Other light music can help us feel relaxed and happy. Sometimes, listening to music is a good way to start and end your day. You will be amazed at how much magic music has on you.

Life is full of surprises and changes. The only thing that is constant in this world is change. We have to learn how to go along with it. Stick with the good things that happen. If there are things that do not go accordingly, that is alright. We can learn from it and move on. Some people have a hard time moving on and for this reason, they are sad and depressed.

No man is an island. We are social being that is why we can always find comfort from our friends and family members. They are always more than willing to help us out. Friends and families give us a sense of belongingness and thus, we feel happy.

There are many ways that we can be happy in life. However, always remember that it will always be your own choice if you want to be happy or not. Some people prefer to be happy while some choose to sulk at every little thing. Whatever you choose, being happy will always make you feel good and light inside. It can also make you feel and look younger.

Author's Bio: 

Cleofe S. Smith believes in creating a positive energy and attracting the good and the positive. Learn more about it at