In Part One of this two part series, we examined what it means to live life unconditionally. Life without conditions simply means that nothing has to be different, new or improved for you to lead a fully satisfying, happy life. That's a radical concept for many.

One big key is to know what you want without placing your attention on the lack of having it.


Naturally you notice what's wanted from a point of lack. Otherwise you wouldn't even want it, you'd have it. So notice briefly what you want and immediately start feeling and pretending what it WILL be like WHEN it shows up. Play more, engage your childlike innocence and creativity and imagine it into being. Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for Relationship Attraction, and is not difficult to grasp.


Get in the feeling mode, the state of already HAVING it. Explore and experience what the ESSENCE of the state of already having that thing, event or relationship manifest. Be it. Ooze it. Swim in it. Not only will you be a powerful broadcaster of the joyful fulfillment of your desires, you'll also be the magnetic ATTRACTOR and ALLOWER of them, too!

That's what I did in Creating the Love of my DREAMS.


"We don't create abundance. Abundance is always present. We create limitation. We are the Source of power. We are the creators of all we experience. The ultimate tool is Appreciation." Arnold Patent

When you stop resisting and start appreciating, you create a space, you open a vortex for your desires to show up. They've always been there - the love, the abundance, the freedom. You were resisting them by saying "they're not here", "more money's going out than coming in", "he won't clean his room." This is your order to the Universe for more of the same. If you don't want that, STOP IT! The Law of Attraction is a wonderful tool for positive realization for your life.

Start appreciating the perfection of everything, your journey, this process, your home, your money, your children. The Ultimate tool is Appreciation.

Think of the word that's opposite of Appreciation - it's Depreciation. If like attracts like, what you place your appreciation on expands. It appreciates. What you place your depreciation on expands in depreciation. It depreciates. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get support! Using an independent listener to talk to can help you move away from outdated patterns much faster.

Try it out. Prove me (and the Universe) wrong. And let me know how it's working.

Author's Bio: 

Nanette Geiger is a relationship coach and author of many books and articles focusing on Relationships, the Law of Attraction and Self-Mastery. You can find more helpful articles on the Resource Page and books on the publications page of her website at

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