I Dumped Her and Now I Miss Her! The Key to Fixing a Break Up

You regret it, don’t you? You had no idea what a wrong move it was at the time. To you it felt right. You believed that breaking up with your girlfriend was the absolute right thing to do. You felt distant from her, the love had changed and you realized that if you let her go you’d be free to pursue someone else. Now it is weeks or months later and you’re miserable. You miss her and no one can take her place. Maybe you’ve tried dating other women but not one of them fills that spot in your heart the way your ex did. So, now what? You messed things up with your ex so is there any way you’re going to get the woman to come back to you? There might be if you’re willing to swallow your pride and make some positive improvements to yourself.

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You have to admit to both yourself and your ex girlfriend that you made a life changing mistake. It’s hard to do when you have no idea how she’s going to respond. Ideally, she’ll fall into your arms proclaiming that she never fell out of love with you. Realistically, it’s much more likely that she’s going to be holding onto some bitter resentment over the way you broke her heart. This is especially true if she fought you on the idea of the break up all the while telling you that she couldn’t live without you. That’s why you have to be cautious with how you approach her to apologize and ask for another chance.

My suggestion is to test the waters before you dive in. In other words, speak to her about anything other than the break up to gauge how receptive to you she is. Call her up and ask how she is. She’ll either burst into tears telling you how horrible her life has been since you dumped her or she’ll react positively to hearing from you. Be mindful of the fact that she’s likely to be very surprised that you’ve called her at all so she may be a bit standoffish. This is fine. Anything is fine actually, unless she hangs up on you straight away.

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If she seems open to the idea of talking to you about something very general, like school, work or the weather, you should suggest a meeting in person. I should note here that she may agree to it but at a future date. Many women will decide that they want to see you but not for a week or two. You shouldn’t necessarily take this as a bad sign. It’s very probable that she just wants some time to compose herself and gather her emotions.

When you do meet be kind and considerate. Explain that you feel that you’ve made a mistake and you’ve come to this conclusion based on the fact that you’ve had time to think and reminisce since the break up. It’s vitally important that you express to your ex girlfriend that you don’t expect her to forgive you right away, but you’d like very much to be her friend. Most women, even those who were deeply hurt by the break up, will be open to this idea.

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Then it’s up to you to show her that you are genuine and that you have changed into someone who appreciates who she is. It’s going to be natural for her to have some resentment towards you and to make you work a bit harder to regain her affection, but you’re up for the challenge. Stay on the right course, be honest with how you feel about her and you two will be able to work towards your future together.

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The word "breakup" sends shivers down my spine. If you have been in a serious relationship ever and it did not last, you will understand why. Being in a relationship ― with all its ups and down, happy moments and the sad ones, crazy ones and the not-so-crazy ones ― can make one feel really connected to the other person at all levels. So, if such a relationships come to an end, it seems like the end of the world literally. If you too have been through a breakup but still love your ex, then here are some useful tips for getting back together after a breakup.

Analyze the Situation

The first thing to do when dealing with a breakup is to try to understand why it happened in the first place. Try to ascertain the reasons, including where you went wrong. Also, you have to be very clear about whether you really want to get back together with your ex. Try to find out the reasons why you want your relationship back. If it is loneliness, then I suggest you start thinking otherwise. Try to socialize and mingle with your friends. If you still feel that you miss your ex, then work on the wrongs that you might have consciously or unconsciously done that led to the breakup. Give up all your bad habits, especially the ones which irritated your ex.

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Improve Yourself

Break-up is the time when you should work on your strengths and try to improve in every sphere of life, be it personal or professional. Everybody likes to be in the company of happy and successful people, and that includes your ex.

Discontinue Contact

If the breakup is still fresh, I suggest that you discontinue all contacts with your ex for a while. Give time to yourself, as well as your ex, to heal and to think about why the breakup happened in the first place. Also, when the breakup is new, there is a possibility that your ex does not even feel like looking at you because he/she might be hurt. So, take a break from each other for about two to three weeks. It could happen that during this break, your partner misses you the same way that you do, so it will be easier to get back together after such a break. If you want to get back with your ex girlfriend, make sure that you wish her on special occasions, such as her birthday, or wish her luck for some new assignment that she might be taking up at college or office. Remember that every small detail of her life, however inconsequential you may think it is, is still very important for her. Women like it when people fuss over them, so she will really appreciate your concern.

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Maintain Communication

After some time has passed, maintain communication. Just call your ex casually and ask how they are doing after the breakup. Show that you care for them, even though you have broken up. Email or call up your ex from time to time, but do not tell them straight away that you want to be together again or how much you are missing them.

Date as "Friends"

A few weeks after you have maintained communication with them, when you feel that you have become friendly again, ask your ex for a casual date, like going for a movie or going out to see a football match. Suggest something that he/she likes, and also mention that it is just a date between two people who are friends and who also happen to care a great deal about each other. If they accept going out with you, there are chances that you two can get back together. However, if your partner's answer is no, I think you should make some other plans where your love life is concerned.

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Have Fun Together

On your date, have as much fun as you can. Do not talk anything serious, such as getting back together, how much you miss them, or that you are looking for a committed relationship. A tip for the ladies: do not mention anything even remotely related to relationships, as most men have commitment phobias and such a talk might scare them away. Also, dress up for the date. Wear something that was your partner's favorite or which they may have gifted you. Share jokes, pull each other's legs, and be flirtatious; basically just show your ex how much fun you are to be with.

Suggesting "Being a Couple"

Once you are friends again, and are almost talking to each other on the phone everyday, e-mailing regularly, and meeting once a week, ask your ex out on a romantic date. If you are a woman, wait for the man to ask you out, because if he wants to be in a relationship with you again, he will take the initiative. Men, you will have to take the step yourself and ask the lady out. If your ex has again started feeling the same way about you, she will surely accept going out on a romantic date with you.

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Being strong, realistic, and analyzing the situation well are very important when dealing with a breakup. If your ex has already started dating other people, and does not hide this fact from you either by mentioning about his/her love life to you, then I think it should be a wake-up call for you. Look for such signals and do not be overridden by emotions. You cannot force anybody to get back with you, but with certain tact and the above mentioned tips, you can surely convince them.

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Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out- Click Here