Talking to girls at parties is different from the usual superficial conversations we have with people we meet on the street.

Because here, the girls are there to have fun.

So your style of conversation should be fun and enticing to keep them in the moment – excited.

This is to say, don’t go into the “what’s your favorite food?”, “what’s
your favorite TV show?”
, and “what’s
your favorite
whatever” line of

…go for a deep emotionally stimulating conversation. [Read: ‘How to Connect with a Girl or a Woman on a Deep Emotional Level’]

Don’t talk about controversial topics like politics, religion, race, and whatnot.

Also avoid discussing things like abortion, rape, or murder.

If you get hanged on these topics and discussions, you will bore them and they blow you off. [Read: ‘What Girls Like to Talk About’ and ‘Things and Topics to Talk About with a Girl’]

Keep Reading: How to Start a Conversation with a Girl

Girls at parties are there to have fun… so your style of conversation should be fun and enticing.

How to Talk to Girls at Parties

Ask the girl a question about herself.

For a start, you can ask…

  • “So what do you do?”

Get her talking about herself and her life… then take an
interest in it.

  • “Is it your desire/a dream to [the work she
    does/the course she reads at college]?”

Read More: Questions to Ask a Girl

Now, know that girls are emotional people and they tend to
talk a lot about themselves when given the chance – sharing their experiences,
feelings, and emotions…

…so focus the conversation on the girl and get her to share
her positive experiences:

  • “What’s the most embarrassing moment you’ve
  • “What’s something about yourself that most
    people would never guess?”

Don’t let her do all the talking, though… share your similar experiences too. [Read: ‘Questions Girls Ask That Need Not Be Answered’]

Now, a conversation without some laughs is dull and boring…

…so get your target girl laughing and having fun.

If something funny happened to you, tell it.

If you have a funny story to share, share it. [Read: ‘How to Make a Girl Laugh’]

Keep Reading: How to Talk to Girls (and Bond with Them on an Emotional Level)

Also Read: How to Keep a Conversation Going with a Girl

Talking to a girl at a party is different from the usual superficial conversations you have with people you meet on the street.

So there you have it…

…how to talk to girls at parties.

I hope this article has given you a deep insight into how to
talk to girls at parties.

Author's Bio: 

Josh Manuel is not a relationship therapist. He's not a pick-up artist. But he brings you quality information on dating and relationships. He offers the best dating tips and relationship advice that will change your love life today. He shares his experiences with you in the hopes that they help you improve your personal relationship with women. You can find his blog at