Self Empowerment by learning how to love someone
Do you know how to love someone? If your answer is “Yes”, think carefully again whether is it you feel that the other party felt loved? For example, if you say the 3 magic words “I Love you” to your wife/girlfriend, you might feel that she will love it but maybe not for some women who prefer action rather than word (For instance, cleaning the whole house when she is tired so that she can rest. They will appreciate this action and felt loved).

When you learn how to love someone truly, it makes a significant difference to your happiness, and also the happiness of your loved one. Loving someone doesn’t always just happen by chance though; you and your partner must be willing to put the effort, take action in to keep the love alive. There is no definite way of loving, but here are some tips.

1. Be a good companion

Stay with your loved ones often, this will not only increase intimacy but also strengthen the belief in your mind that you love him. Do not multi-task while accompany him/her, put down your books, shut down your laptop or TV to focus on spending the quality time together. Remember to give her undivided attention.

2. Unconditioned Love

When you love someone, never expect anything in return. That is, you shouldn’t expect even love in return. Remember, one can truly love another person just because he/she wants to and not because he/she has to.

3. Know your partner’s favourite “Love Language”

Do they know you love them when you speak words of love? Or maybe they feel loved by your acts of service? Some people feel loved by receiving little gifts while others might like loving touches (a good night/morning kiss before sleep and upon awaken). Real love is not based on your preference but your partner’s.

4. Support

Be supportive and assist to complete her important goals.

5. Do not compare

Do not compare her unfavourably with others. Instead brag about her to others, both in front of her and when she is not with you.

6. Admit and apologize if you are in the wrong

You’re not too macho to say, “I’m sorry” if you are really in the wrong. In fact you’ll be a much bigger man if you do apologize.

7. Appreciation

Appreciate the love you and your loved one share. Never take your love for granted. Every day you should be thankful that you are getting the chance to be with such an amazing and wonderful person, and make sure that they have plenty of reasons to be thankful that they are with you too. A relationship that is truly based on love can be hard to find, and you should always be grateful that the two of you have been brought together, and that you are both able to bring joy to each other’s lives.

8. Lies Hurt

Don’t ever lie to the one you love, tell the truth. Remember when you tell one lie, you have to use many more to cover it, once it is disclosed, things will get complicated.

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“Love one another and you will be happy. It’s as simple and as difficult as that”

Author's Bio: 

“Succeed does not come to you, you have to go to it” Using this philosophy, I decided to create this self help website to push myself to achieve self empowerment and also to motivate all of my friends out there who are reading and staying with me throughout this empowering journey.

More about me…
I am born in the island of Millionaires, guess where? It is Singapore, just a little tiny ret dot in the world but had achieved incredible results in a short 30 years with the highest percentage of millionaires here. Do you want to be a Millionaire? “Of course!” is the reply of most people but how many people can achieve it? You might be telling yourself that all these millionaires are either born with a silver spoon in their month with wealthy parents or just that they are very lucky to be successful. “How lucky they are? How I wish I have what they I have?”

I can tell you here, “You are wrong!” How do you define luck? For me, I will define luck as “LUCK = OPPORTUNITY + ACTION”. So I will always bear this in mind and getting prepared for the opportunity and take massive action when it arises. This will be the mindset of the millionaire.

For me, I might not be a millionaire now, but working progressively towards this goal. “Dream big and take baby steps” is my strategy. My ultimate goal is to achieve personal growth and financial growth. With this strong desire in mind, I am taking action every day to empower myself to change my mindset from a victim to winner one.

Remember this in mind, “You will never FAIL unless you QUIT”.

Do join me in this enriching journey and empower yourself to achieve anything you want in life.