Reaching to succeed in what we are doing is the best challenge. If you dont know how to improve yourself and life, it seems tough to reap your fruits at the end. I have collected some good points in which you can follow to improve your self to reach your goal.
To reach the target or your bulls eye is so difficult. Sometimes, you dont know where you are standing or what exactly you are doing, but you just keep doing it little by little. Self improvement could be known by the end and that was a success, even though that can be financial, a family creation, a personal goal, or something else which finishes and makes a small part of the self development journey.
Here is a collection of self improvement tips, and some of them are obvious and common sense; nevertheless, they would be useful in some way for our whole lives.
- Stop or never think you are a failure because the word Failure is only an element of life learning lessons. It is how you look your failure and count, and achieving a failure doesnt define the whole of your life and can make you a total failure. Accept yourself to what you have faced so that others can accept you too. I never put this word in my brain dictionary.
- Try to help others who are feeling down or getting stressed too. Improving your lives together with them helps provide a group spirit, and then the person who is also feeling down doesnt try and pull you down with them as this can happen. You can try playing sports with them to release stresses but you dont try to get drug when your feeling is down.
- Everyone always makes mistake and remember that no one is perfect or no real justice in the world. So, one mistake isnt the end of your world. Try realizing your mistakes and keep moving on from a path to another until you find out the right one. The more you think of them, the more you may sink into thinking too much or worse depression because you might get frustrated without going elsewhere.
- Try to do a small thing a day and do it at one time. Gradually develop your self esteem or confidence and set targets in which you are aiming for. Success cannot be worked for just a day, just like Angkor Wat temple wasnt built in a just day.
- Success comes from keeping doing again and again and your power inside, so do everything you feel good about yourself, if it improves your health in some ways or improve your family financial status.
- Set specific goals in which you think that you can accomplish and keep starting with them step by step. Dont just set the goals without actions or youll be disappointed when you dont achieve them.
- Dont forget spreading your new found happiness, confidence, and self esteem by letting other people, friends, or family members know about it. You start to compliment other people and even just greet other people you wouldnt ordinarily have done before. This makes you feel good, so do the other people who you meet or work with. They will associate confidence and happiness with you and then you may have more opportunities which open up and wait for you.
- Learn how to accept other people concepts and ideas and accept that others around you may not want to change you. Accept it and concentrate on yourself or those who do want to try and improve their lives in some way. Surround yourself with those who want to join you, but dont leave out those who arent quite ready because they might want to improve later.
- Always look for the power inside yourself and never think that you arent good enough to face on the other people. Just because you see other people already enjoying success doesnt mean that cant be you in a few years down the line. Try to act and show what you know to other people around you and dont be so boosted or so humbled.
Improvement is of course very hard and tough things to do and most times does not exist even in an ideal world. None is perfect everything and sometimes you should not think over what you can do. Of course, human can do everything but does not mean that he/she can succeed in what they do. Just relax yourself or watch movies or songs at home or via online (World Entertainment). It can help you laugh and release your stress.
My name is Elaine and I'm a self proclaimed "do it yourself addict". I am the mother of the best 11 year old boy ever and my husband's not too shabby either
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