If you're getting ready for your very first date or you just want to know what to expect on your first date, don't worry to expect on that first date so you can have a simple, fun, and easy enough time. Let's say you've worked up the courage to talk to your crush, now it's time for you to ask them out and figure out how you can have a first date that's enjoyable.

You should definitely check out after this. The purpose of this video is gonna be focused on developing the right mentality in that type of situation. One thing to remember is that if you're the one that wants to ask them out, then it's on you to take charge to handle the whole setup of the date. Leaving plans open or in the air by saying things like I don't know, whatever you want to do doesn't convey confidence or certainty in what you're expecting from that person.

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Also being more generic in the way that you ask them by saying something like Do you want to go out sometime? won't give you a specific result if you were to say something like Hey, after school on Friday do you want to go check out this ice cream spot with me? The more specific you are in what it is you want to do, the easier it'll be for the person to give you a straightforward answer.

Plus, it shows them that you're inviting them into your world. You're not just sitting around waiting for them to give you a chance, you're actually creating a chance for them to take. What you end up choosing to do on the date won't really change what your attitude should be. So there are a few universal things that you should understand if you want to have a great first date experience. Whether it's someone you've hung out with before or someone you've hung out with for the very first time the goal is to create a safe, fun, and comfortable environment with them every single time you meet up.

If it's a first date, a lot of times people make the simple mistake of creating an initial distance between you and that person. Sometimes they'll stay a few feet away and just wave hi or just say hello with a nod. What I recommend doing is putting on a big smile and going for a hug. Now that doesn't always mean they're going to welcome a hug or want a hug when you first meet, so be very mindful of that. However, usually, a hello hug really isn't a problem.

The reason why it's important to go for a hug right, in the beginning, is because it sets the tone that there isn't going to be this awkward two or three feet between you guys for the whole night. You've already made physical contact so there isn't that awkwardness and reason to keep your distance. Besides, the more touch that happens between the two of you guys, the easier it'll be to feel more comfortable.

And talking about what you guys have planned for the day is an easy way to show them that you're excited to do it and you're excited to spend that time with them. Generally, there are three types of things people do on dates. One is some kind of activity. That might mean going to the movies, seeing a live band, or doing something that requires both of your guy's focus and attention. The second is eating together.

As far as escalating the date physically between the two of you, look for simple moments where you can make light gestures that you can tap on the arm, or give them a high five just to keep some kind of physical contact going throughout the night. Each of these small steps throughout the night will eventually build the comfort that you need to hold their hand, put your arm around their back, or even kiss them. Just remember you don't have to kiss on the first date, it's totally normal and you don't have to feel pressured into doing so.

Kiss them when you both feel comfortable and ready to do so. But even before you reach the end of the first date, try to look at different things you guys talked about throughout the night to help springboard into you setting up the second date. Did they mention a movie they want to see or a place they want to eat? Try to take note of those little things and mention to them that you're having a lot of fun and that you want to do that thing with them.

Just don't wait for the total end of the night though because when you do wait for the end, it ends up looking forced and rushed and doesn't seem like it's flowing naturally between the two of you. What do you guys think, have you ever been on a first date before? If you have, share your story below. If you haven't, what do you feel is holding you back from asking out your crush and experiencing that first date?


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