Sometimes, knowing what you’re looking for in a man can be quite difficult. And if you’re one of them, don’t get discouraged. It truly isn’t as difficult as you may think to find the right man for you. This article should give you insight on how to get a man and what to look for during your search. You may not be looking for love in the wrong places, but may be just looking for the wrong traits in your love. Of course everyone wants a tall, handsome prince who cooks, cleans and treats you like a princess. Even if he existed, you would probably tire of him after the third round of champagne and chocolates. Stop looking for a fantasy and focus on finding a real man.

If you are a woman who has been through numerous unsuccessful relationships in your life, it is time that you realized that you are probably not dating the right kind of people. Many a times it happens that women get attracted to a man who is good-looking, rich and showers them with undivided attention, especially early on in the relationship, little realizing that he is not the one for them.

The very first thing you must do is resign to be very open-minded. You need to cast aside all the standards that you may have been using and start from scratch. Forget what all your girlfriends say is attractive. Never mind what you see in the men’s boxer commercials on television. You’ll want to start with the very basics of what makes two people compatible, not two lovers, but two people in general, in order to find what kind of person works for you.

In order to find out what you are really looking for in a man, you need to take the time to consider the complete person, not just the body. You need to take into consideration things like personality, interests, and ambition and then looks. You’re probably wondering why I listed those traits in the order I did.

If you consider looks first it will tend to cloud your judgment on all the other traits. Women tend to be very easily visually stimulated. For this reason, what excites them at first sight tends to be what they think they want.

However, if you consider what you want in the other areas, the looks may not be so important. You may find that a man with a great personality that likes traveling and reading as much as you do and who takes his career as a human resources director seriously, but who happens to be an average build, would suit you just fine. Personality, intelligence, ambition, sense of humor and interests play a much bigger role in attraction than just physical appearance.

I am not saying to settle for anyone. However, I am suggesting that you take an inward and outward look at yourself; then date on your lever. No one is perfect, and no one will ever be perfect. Being rich and famous has nothing to do with how successful a relationship will be. Seeing past the physical attraction allows you to look into the core of a man. You will never know how to get a man if you don’t know what to look for.


Author's Bio: 

Devon Brown’s No B.S. advice has helped numerous single women just like you get out of their own way and discover How To Get A Man. Be sure to grab your FREE COPY of Devon's powerful audio interview entitled "The 7 Self-Sabotaging Behaviors That Keep Women From Finding Mr. Right" now by going to