Finding the right woman for you is most likely the reason you date! You are in search of someone who compliments you and makes you happy, and who would be a good fit as a companion for life for you. The problem is that sometimes you have to go through a lot of wrong women to find the right one.
Finding the wrong woman is not a bad thing though! The only thing wrong with it is that it takes away time from being with the right woman.
Finding the wrong woman will always move you closer to the right woman. It’s true! You learn what you don’t want in a partner from the wrong person and the next time you go on a date with someone it is usually with someone who does not have those wrong traits, ideals, or beliefs that turned you off from other women.
So in essence the best way to find the right woman for you is to date the wrong women! Each woman who doesn’t line up with what you want will push you closer to finding, or picking, a woman who you do want.
Of course you can ensure your chances of finding the right woman are increased by following two simple rules.
1. Don’t Pick Up Women You Know Are Not Right
It’s easy to get caught up in asking any woman you talk to, or who talks to you, out on a date. But with the amount of woman in this world you can afford to be a little picky. Don’t just pick any woman to get to know, but pick a woman who really appeals to your attraction both physically and mentally.
For instance, if you meet a woman at a bar who enjoys rap, smoking, and passing out on toilets, and you enjoy none of that, then don’t ask her out for a date because chances are there will be more differences that you are not aware of.
2. Hang Out In Places of Interest to You
Relationships go a lot smoother when you share common interests and beliefs. If you hang out at a church but do not believe in their religion then chances are you are going to find a woman who conflicts with your beliefs. This example may be a bit extreme but you get the picture.
Hang out in places that hold your interest and that way you will have more of a chance of meeting a woman who is also interested in what you are interested in. In fact, this is probably the best way to look for women with somewhat similar beliefs or interests.
So there you have it! Find the right woman for you by learning about what you don’t want in a women and weeding those women out. Then don’t waste time dating women you know are not right because miss right may pass you by. And remember, if you want a woman with common interests then don’t hang out somewhere you have no interest in! Find a woman at places you enjoy.
Bellaisa is the owner of Pleasure Her Tonight a website with relationship advice for men on dating, intimacy, and relationship issues. Learn how to get women and become a man that every woman wants.
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