Dear friend, to have a joy filled relationship is to have that sense of self.

We all have expectations of relationships and how they are going to be. But if we come from within ourselves, with that authentic experience of knowing who we are and have the ability to share that with others, unencumbered by that mask of the need to protect, then we will draw to ourselves those that we are compatible with.

We will have like minded experiences and a flow of energy that is not discordant or fractured or uncomfortable.

Relationships of joy fill the heart and come from the inner to the outer, they have that sense of self that gives one freedom, that sense of atonement, being soul centered and it allows one to feel comfortable in one’s own skin.

A balanced relationship of self draws to itself similar relationships in the external because you changed your perceptions and greet and meet opportunity with others from a different perspective.

Old paradigms vs. new paradigms for relationships

The old paradigm has been the paradigm of need, of caring for each other and earlier on it meant banding together so that you could survive. It was all based on a survival aspect. Often in the old paradigm when one loved another, you wanted to fight their battles. In essence that takes away from their learning. It is better to hold the energy of change for them which allow them to experience the opportunity of grand growth within themselves.

Now in the new paradigm each individual is learning how within their own experience to be in the causal plane in the realization that one can create all the things that is needed by oneself.

Everyone has the opportunity to do this, so a relationship then is not one of need that you must provide and take care of the other emotionally or protect the other because they have the power to do that themselves.

The preference is, “I come into this relationship with the self realization of wholeness and the divine essence that I am and prefer to draw unto myself someone who is compatible so that we can share unconditional love, clear communication and authenticity that builds trust.”

It is nothing that is forced, it is nothing that should be forced, it is an allowance of each individual coming into that fuller awareness of self and once upon the spiritual path, the momentum begins for that clarity from within and the integration process to begin.

Until next time, make this a week one in which you are living your life to the fullest.

With appreciation and gratitude
Nigel St.Hill

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Nigel St. Hill is a writer and a life and money management coach helping people who are ready discover their path to money, abundance and prosperity, so that they could live the life of their dreams. He is the founder of http://www.moneyandabundance.com and author of the book, Money Management Caribbean Style and several ebooks including The Easy Cash Flow System, How to Keep Your Doors Open in a Recession, Creative But Practical Ways to Save money, 8 Simple Ways to Live a Healthy Abundant Lifestyle,12 Secrets to Having a Romantic Relationship, Ten Easy Ways to Empowerment, How to Attract Money and Abundance, Uncover Your True Potential and The Complete Guide to Life Skills for Today’s Youth. https://www.amazon.com/author/nigelsthill .
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