People who are attracted to each other tend to flirt. It’s actually a good reason why you’re able to sit here and read this article. It’s genetically coded within human beings that once you’re able to flirt and establish some attraction and a connection then you’re going to more likely than not want to sleep with them.

There’s nothing you can do to hide it.

It’s genetically coded within you and there’s thousands of years of evolution to back me up.

If you like someone, you’re going to end up flirting with them no matter how hard you try NOT to flirt.

That’s why if you want to know how to impress a married woman through flirting, you’re going to need to understand the basics regarding this topic.

Women are natural born flirts, and they already are ahead of the game when compared to men. So you need to take extra attention to this subject, otherwise she’s just going to walk all over you.

So what is flirting?
Flirting is the use of a combination of verbal and non verbal gestures expressed by one to another to indicate signs of sexual interest.

Did you read that? It includes BOTH verbal and NON verbal gestures.

So what are some great tips to help you improve your flirting ability?

1. Find a female friend - as I already mentioned earlier, women are masters at flirting. So what faster way to learn than to learn directly from them! Not only will you be able to understand the subtle differences between how men and women flirt, but you’re going to know EXACTLY the way women flirt so you can later on pick them up and use it to your own advantage.

2. Learn the three Ps of flirting –
What are the three Ps? It is being Personable, Pleasant as well as Pleasing. Firstly, it is extremely important that you appear personable and presentable when you start to flirt. So this means you have to take care of the basics regarding hygiene and dress sense. You need to look like a decent person otherwise she’s not going to be very interested.

After that, the flirting experience should be a fun one, and be pleasant for both of you involved. If you’re enjoying it and she’s not – then you’re not flirting with her. You would be harassing her.

Keep in mind that during this entire process you need to be positive and cool to be around. Make sure you have a great smile on your face and you don’t make fun of her personal beliefs that she cannot change.

When you flirt with her, you can make fun of what she’s wearing, the way she walks, the way she talks. But you CANNOT by any means make fun of her ethnicity, religion or anything about her that she’s unable to change.

If you do this, not only are you breaking rapport, but you’re a real asshole for not being sensitive and she will not appreciate this.

Lastly, you need to PLEASE her. This is the hard part a lot of guys mess up. How do you please her? You need to tease her and make fun of her, but at the same time let her know you’re just joking and let her know that you’re doing it because you are interested in her.

Yes, you have to combine your teasing and flirting together. You can’t have one without the other, otherwise you’re going to come off as a douche or a meanie.

Here’s an example of how you can tease a woman and please her at the same time. I like to use what I call “backhand compliments”. What is a back handed compliment? It’s when you say something nice, but at the same time you say something that offends them at the same time.

Here’s an example:

You: Wow, you look really sexy in that dress, pity you have fat legs

As you can see, you’re saying that she’s really sexy, but then at the same time her legs are unattractive. So it will be easy for the woman to accept your comment as your positive statement was more obvious in weight than the minor complaint you made about her. This sets up a flirty scenario where she’s going to know that you kind of like her, but are teasing her because of her legs.

She’s going to then be like “oh my legs are not fat” and you are going to say they are.

Then the next thing you know, you’re starting to banter and flirt even more!


In order to learn how to master flirting with women, you’re going to have to go out there and practice. Embrace rejection, because the sooner it comes, the better you will be at flirting and I guarantee that in no time, you’ll be thanking me for telling you to get rejected!

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