There are all types of people in this world: some who inspire us and some who bring us down. One generally comes into contact with different kinds of people, which gives one an opportunity to recognize those who are good to be around with, and equally important, identify the negative ones so that one can keep one’s self away from them.

How do we identify them? Let’s see…
Some of the characteristics that these negative people exhibit are:

●They view the world and almost everything around them cynically. Even in a positive situation, they will somehow manage to find something negative. Overall, they are pessimists.
●These individuals are constantly complaining about one thing or other.
●Their satisfaction level is exceptionally low.
●They are envious – they find it extremely hard to be happy for anyone who is doing well.
●They are constantly competing with everyone because of their own lack of self-worth.
●They bring you down when you are happy.
●They are gossipers, deriving pleasure from other people’s misfortunes.
●They are highly egocentric who always put their need above someone else's.
●They like the world to revolve only around them.

If we find someone’s behavior is inclined more towards negativity, here are a few suggestions on how to conduct ourselves in their presence:
●It is difficult to completely ignore the person, but we can change the amount of time we spend in their company.
●When someone is using negative speech, we, from our end, make sure we do not ruin our own speech. If they are saying things we do not agree with, we can say a couple of positive things to counterbalance the interaction. We could also have a positive impact on them by doing this, in case they are not too aware of their negative actions and speech.
●We do not have to necessarily agree with them; we can voice our opinion, but without hurting them.
●Every living being acts based on their past life karma. So, although a person/s may seem negative externally, one may be feeling remorseful for their actions and words internally.
●Once we know this law of karma, it makes it easy to deal with such person/s without harboring abhorrence towards them, or else we will bind future karmic account with them once again.
●In case any hurtful thought arises in our mind towards such person, we’ll immediately ask for forgiveness, as a result of which, we will feel lighter and our opinions linked to them will dissipate.
●Soul exists within every single living being and it by its inherent nature is absolutely pure. We shall always bear in mind that such Soul exists within that person.

To conclude:
People walk into our life for a reason. It is because of our karmic bondage from our past life that this happens. Therefore, if we deal with them with equanimity i.e. without abhorrence or attachment towards him, and seek forgiveness from the God (the Pure Soul) residing in that person whenever we fail to do so, then the conflict or the uneasiness that we experience in the presence of that person shall eventually come to an amicable closure and end.

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Author's Bio: 

Ambalal M. Patel was a civil contractor by profession. In June 1958, spontaneous Self-Realization occurred within Ambalal M. Patel. From this point on, Ambalal became a Gnani Purush, and the Lord that manifest within him became known as Dada Bhagwan. A Gnani Purush is One who has realized the Self and is able help others do the same. Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan used to go from town to town and country-to-country to give satsang (spiritual discourse) and impart the knowledge of the Self, as well as knowledge of harmonious worldly interactions to everyone who came to meet him. This spiritual science, known as Akram Vignan, is the step-less path to Self-realization.