What is your relationship philosophy? Do you feel that whatever happens will happen and nothing can be done to change the outcome? Many men have this type of relationship view and while it may work while the relationship is still new and fresh, when the rubber meets the road, it is important that have to have a plan to improve your relationship. If you become complacent in the relationship, then your relationship will unravel right before your eyes, and you will risk losing the love of your life.
When was the last time you did the laundry for your significant other? If you haven't had the best luck doing the laundry, as in you always shrink things that should be shrunk, and you bleach things that shouldn't be bleached, it may be a good idea to skip this step. Remember, you want to give her an opportunity to relax and see how amazing you are as opposed to stressing her out and making her despise you. In some cases, it may be a good idea to simply fold the clean laundry before she can get to it, and this will have the same effect, but it will prevent laundry mishaps. Or maybe you can help her sort the dirty laundry because she will appreciate the gesture and enjoy your company.
When she's had a hard day at work what do you do to help her relax? One of the best things you can do is have a warm bubble bath waiting for her so she can take time to relax as soon as she walks into the house. For added elegance, have her favorite candles burning around the bathtub.
In most romantic relationships it is tempting to start losing respect for the other person, and although you may never say that you don't respect them, they will be able to tell. Instead of constantly telling her that you respect her, actually treating her with respect is a much more powerful statement.
When was the last time you made something for your significant other? Maybe it's time to call your great Aunt Wendy and ask her to give you a crash course in knitting so you can knit a scarf for the love of your life. Chances are the scarf won't be perfect, but she will be surprised and she will love the gesture. No matter what you decide to make for her, even if it's just breakfast in bed, she will love the fact that you were thinking about her.
Although most men spend a significant amount of time doing their best to portray strong, macho characters, it is important to realize that it is ok to be vulnerable in a relationship. In fact, although women don't want you to lose your masculinity, they will actually welcome your vulnerable moments. The next time you are sharing a special moment with your significant, don't be afraid to tell her about your hopes, dreams and fears. This will humanize you and make her fall even more deeply in love with you.

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