Are you a woman who is unsure about how to get the man you want? If you are, then you are not alone. There are many women out there who think they understand the workings of the male mind, but they really do not understand how men think. Not knowing how a man thinks can really be an obstacle, especially when you are trying to get the man you want. It is even harder to get the perfect guy when there are so many other single women out there also looking. To get the edge, you definitely need some pointers to push you ahead of the crowd.

3 Pointers That Can Help You Get the Man You Want

Pointer 1. Let us be honest. The first thing a man notices about a woman is the way she looks. It is generally the first thing you notice about a man too, and this does not make either of the sexes shallow. It is just that the outer covering is the first thing you see when you look at anything. If you want a man to notice you, he needs to either like what he sees or at least be intrigued enough to want to look further. If you can add in a touch of sexiness without looking trashy, then you have a winning combination. Looking beautiful and classy but not trashy is one way to get the man you want.

Pointer 2. Let him know that you like him by flirting with him. When he flirts back, do everything you can to make him feel confident. Most women do not realize it, but not all men are confident when it comes to interacting with women. If you create an environment where he feels that flirting is painless, then he will want to keep hanging out with you for a very long time.

Pointer 3. If you want to get the man you want, every now and then you have to pretend to run away so he can chase you. A few women frown against playing hard to get, but this is something that engages the man and builds up his interest if it is done correctly.

You do not want to play too much because the man you are after might grow bored and find other pursuits. The perfect amount of playing hard to get can help you get the man you want.

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