Today you are going to buy the possibility that you can make any woman so relaxed that she'll forget you are even making fun of her. What's more, you'll have her join you in getting to laugh at herself!

And then you'll gain the results of breaking the "Stranger" ice to talk to her, especially for the first time. You'll develop QUICKER rapport with her so quick, you'll have new students begging you to teach them how you always do it. Moreover, you'll get her inner fire started and burning for you so very hot, you'll start getting her attracted to you too instantly. So if you have to pay attention to my 6-year old experience in picking up and dating beautiful women, do so and ingest the magic you'll be performing soon. (Don't tell the ladies I revealed this... )

Before I land straight on top of the humor technique I'm about to teach you, it'd make sense if I started right from the very beginning to get you to even start talking to her.

And it begins with establishing and raising your perceived value as an attractive man in her eyes. In other words, you have to make her see a genuine reason to find you attractive enough to talk to. Raising your value entails you getting her to put in some physical or mental effort in not only trying to figure you out, but also in trying to get her to get your attention. For example, we can use the classic example of ignoring her and talking to her friend instead, especially if your target girl is way too beautiful. Or instead of getting her a drink, you could ask her to buy you a drink for a change - because you deserve it as an attractive guy. No matter what you do, do it with confidence. ALSO make sure you follow up this first technique by giving her some positive reinforcement, or reward, for short. You could give her a quick rub on her hand or shoulder, or tell her "thank you" with a genuine and pleasing smile.

When you're done with raising your value in her eyes, the next step will require you to engage in what we dating coaches call "Qualifying Herself." It isn't such a complex concept when you realize that it only means that after you make her get your attention by demonstrating your value, you now have to make her feel qualified enough to keep your attention. Just in case you're wondering, you must feel inside of you that YOU are the prize in the dating game. Otherwise, you won't come off genuinely with these techniques or with trying to pick her up for a date. The best way to get her to qualify herself is to ask her a question. Normally you could ask a question that allows her to talk about the best positive qualities about herself, but in this special case of using my humor technique, you have to ask her a question that'll get her to reveal some very tragic or really silly thing that happened to her in the past. According to established results from a psychological research, time weakens the sensitivity of tragic events in a woman's life, so it doesn't really matter how personal or sad her experience must have been. Just get her to share it with you. Ask her to tell you and she will, because you have her attention with your high value personality.

Third step is you getting to GENUINELY empathize with her story or whatever she told you, and if you find that hard to do, just put yourself in her shoes. I support being true and sincere when dealing with women's feelings because they are worthy to be respected. Hence, don't fake it. Live it instead. Empathize with her and acknowledge how painful the experience must have been for her. Then stress the fact that afterall, that was sometime or a long time ago and it's now in the past.

AND HERE comes the Super Technique where you make her laugh at her past woes. This technique will single you out of the pack of other men and will instantly widen her eyes for you, getting her very interested in you.

Here's how you apply the technique: after empathizing with her, reverse the role she played in her story and put yourself instead in that role. Then let her know that if it was you in her shoes, you would react the opposite way she reacted to what happened to her at that time. MAKE SURE YOU EXAGGERATE THIS THING YOU WOULD DO. Humor is all about an unexpected opposite reaction to an event in an exaggerated manner.

For example, after working the first part of my pick up on a girl in a store, we stop for a quick bite in a restaurant and I get to ask her to tell about the most embarrassing thing that happened to her last year. She asks me why, and I reply that I'm just curious to know how she handles stress, because I am a very difficult person. She chuckles first, then tells me about how she lost $2500 in a scam to some Nigerian guy. She lets me know how hard it hit her because she had to work herself too hard at different jobs to make enough money for school. Employing my technique, I laugh a little, then sincerely empathize with her, knowing her painful it feels to lose money. After that, I tell her that if I were her, I would feel bad about the loss, but I'd very be happy about it. She asks me why, and I tell her, "At least, I now know why fools fall in love'"

Ha... I don't know about this joke in particular, but I came up with this in less than 7 seconds because I've learnt the secret to constructing funny witty lines when I'm with women and it always works. I just hope you are any good at all in making women laugh even one bit?

Well, there you have it. Her reaction could range from a very hard laugh to a very deep smile but one thing will remain constant - you just etched a very BIG space for yourself in her heart. And she won't forget the humorous guy that made her go back to the painful past, only to soften the incident with humor and laugh it all off, including making her laugh at her pains.

If you doubt your expert ability to make women laugh, even just a little and would love to discover the little mistakes amateur guys make when getting women to laugh, endeavor to LEARN MORE FREE. You can definitely research the internet. Please, save your life by learning this skill. Trust me, your life's hanging in the balance if you don't have this GREAT lifetime skill well mastered!

Author's Bio: 

I'm a Dating Coach and Pick up artiste who holds a gentler philosophy that teaches that women should be respected, even when they are being seduced.

Since my first heartbreak in 2006, I've been picking up beautiful women since 2007 and today I help overwhelmed guys get a grasp of the feminine minds better, as well as develop healthy dating culture that doesn't hamper the welfare of both dating parties involved in anyway.