Psychologists told what is the secret of a harmonious relationship between a man and a woman.
Under the phrase "harmonious couple", many understand approximately one thing: partners fit each other, have a great relationship, in the end, look good next to each other. But all this does not fully reflect the essence of the concept.

And how then to strive for this very harmony, if you do not know what it is and how to achieve it?

Psychologists came to the rescue, and they told which relationships are really harmonious and how lovers can reach them in real life.

According to scientists, there are five aspects that define a wonderful union and are present in a relationship.

Mutual respect. This is one of the fundamental conditions for a strong union of a man and a woman. If one partner is not ready or does not want to accept the other as he is, accept his shortcomings and features, a good family will not work.

The desire to speak frankly with a partner. According to psychologists, the ability to find common topics of conversation, to interest another in something is an important condition. But it is even more important to be able and ready to listen and hear a loved one. Pretending to be interested in discussing a topic is one of the types of lies and will not lead to anything good. Check more about relationships at the

Feel and be one team. This is reflected in the distribution of responsibilities around the house, and sincere care for each other, and in the feeling of oneself as a whole. Remember the musketeers' motto: "One for all and all for one"? Something like this is hidden behind the scenes in the relationship of spouses.

Sense of humor. In a harmonious relationship, it is good not only to admire each other's skills, but also to joke fun about shortcomings, it is easy and positive to experience troubles.

Confidence. In a couple where there is no absolute trust in each other, there is no happy future. Doubt can kill even the greatest love.

Author's Bio: 

Dr.Mike Hamelton, Utah University of Biology