Being suspicious of your spouse and assuming that they are cheating on you is starting to destroy you and tear you apart. It’s driving you crazy that you don’t know what is really going on. All you want is to know the truth. If you knew the truth, then you could sleep at night and maybe get on with your life.

To make this happen, you need to gather some evidence that your spouse is cheating on you. You need to do some uncover dirty work to get down to the bottom of what is going on when you are not around. You need to know what to look for to tell if you’re being lied to and betrayed, so your spouse won’t get away with this for another moment.

The first sign to look for is if your spouse is spending less time with you and more time at work or doing other things. When your spouse starts making lame excuses for why they can’t be with you at a certain time or why they insist on working late, then you know something is up. You just have to figure out what.

Try ambushing your spouse at work when they least expect it. If they say that they are going to be at the office working late, then go to the office to surprise them with dinner. This heartfelt sentiment will make them feel extra anxious when they realize what they are doing. If your spouse isn’t there and they claimed that they would be, then you have something to think about and perhaps, your first piece of evidence.

Secondly, you can try to set up your spouse with someone else. Now, this isn’t quite what it sounds like, but you would find someone that you found quite attractive and you would try to get your spouse interested in them, to see if they would in fact cheat if the opportunity presented itself. This is a true test and is a great way to learn the truth. If they find out that it was you who ultimately did this, they will probably lash out and blame you for everything, but the truth of the matter is, if they really loved you, they wouldn’t do this.

Another way to gather some evidence as to whether or not your spouse is cheating, is to install a software on their personal computer that they will not be able to see, but that will relay information back to you that pertains to the affair. You will get to see everything - bank statements, emails, social media files – the whole works. If they are having an affair, then information about the affair is definitely on their computer. This is the best way that you can find out information and fast. Some may say it is snooping, but is it truly snooping when you are worried and just trying to learn the truth? That is when it changes.

Stop letting your spouse walk all over you. You need to take charge here and you need to be in control of the situation. If you think that you are being lied to and cheated on, then you need to do something about it. Uncover the truth about your marriage now.

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Suspecting that your spouse is cheating can leave you feeling confused and alone. You may not think adultery can impact your marriage, but it can. Many men and women have no idea that their partners are being unfaithful. You can learn within the next few minutes how to catch your spouse cheating on you.