Discuss what makes a good date in your opinion so your partner knows
Take turns planning the date and making it happen the way you like it to
Talking about what is going on in your relationship right now, or resolve old issues
End the evening with a high note or with a fun activity.


Don’t spend a lot of money on the date. The quality of the date is not necessarily determined by the amount of money spent.
Do not wait for the “mood” to come over you. Decide to be you are open to possibilities.
Don’t nurse grudges or resentment. Learn to state your feelings clearly as well as your proposed way forward.

Author's Bio: 

Dr. Martha Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality. She provides sexuality and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples, conducts sexual education workshops and speaks at public events. For more, visit or email