Do guys ever want their ex back? There’s a feeling of sheer and utter panic that a woman feels after a break up if she still loves her ex. You know the feeling all too well, don’t you? You break out in a cold sweat at night when you dream about the man you love dating other women. You start crying at the drop of a hat because you’re suddenly overcome with thoughts of a future without him. I know these feelings all too well because I experienced them as well when the man I adored dumped me. I felt I was drowning in my own feelings. I was lost, I felt incredibly vulnerable and I couldn’t control my emotions at all. All I really wanted was for him to call me up, tell me he made a mistake and come running back. You want the same thing. I know you want it right this minute, but I’m here to tell you that if you can muster up some patience, and strength, the man will likely come back in time.

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Here’s what happens to a woman after a break up. She feels the sense of loss immediately. There’s a void in her life that her ex boyfriend used to fill so she drops into mourning. It’s during this phase that a woman will cry endlessly, wish for nothing more than a moment with her ex and she’ll also drive her friends crazy because she can’t stop talking about the break up. Mourning is a good thing because it helps you process the end of the relationship. It’s natural to experience a lot of conflicting emotions during this time. You may cycle through feeling very angry with your ex boyfriend, to feeling glad that the conflicts are over to feeling depressed because you don’t think you’ll ever fall in love again.

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As a woman works her way through these emotions, she starts to feel a bit stronger. Suddenly, just thinking about her ex doesn’t push her into a deep pool of despair. She feels like getting out more. She starts taking care of herself the way she used to and she may even laugh from time to time. This is an important part of the healing journey because it signals that the woman has accepted the break up. Even if she still feels something for her ex boyfriend, she’s able to look back at what they shared as part of her past.

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Here’s what happens in the male brain after the relationship ended. Let’s say that your boyfriend was the one who called things off. He told you that he needed space, time or he didn’t love you anymore. Whatever his reasoning was, it hurt, yes? To him it was a means to an end. He may have decided that he wanted a taste of freedom and you were holding him back. Maybe he really did feel that he wasn’t as emotionally connected to you as he once was. Whatever his reasoning was at the time, he now has to move forward with his life. This is really where the difference between men and women is most stark.

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Most men can pick up and move on from a break up in what seems like an instant. That’s because men process their emotions much more slowly than we do. A man will immerse himself in new experiences as a coping mechanism. That’s why you’ll often hear about a man marrying another woman soon after he break up with his girlfriend, or a man will move to another city. Those things make it appear as though he’s left the relationship behind him and forgotten about it. The reality is that he’s using those things to try and forget the relationship.

If you do nothing, other than moving forward with your life, you will eventually hear from your ex boyfriend. It may not be this month, this year or within the next two years. At some point, he’s going to reflect back on the relationship and miss you. When you do hear from him it’s an indication that at that point in time he finally realized what he lost. He was finally able to process the break up. In most cases that moment or realization will occur because something else has happened within his life. Maybe he was dumped by his current girlfriend, maybe there was a sudden death in his family, or maybe he got wind of the fact that you’ve grown increasingly closer to a new man. Something will trigger his emotions and they’ll suddenly flow freely and you’ll become the focus of them.

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I recognize that this offers little comfort to you if you long to have him back in your life now. If your better judgement tells you that this relationship wasn’t healthy for you, please try your best to focus on the future and let him go.

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Occasionally I get calls from men and women who want to know if their ex is using them, but before I can even answer, they get into "He/she is really a good person, I really don't think he/she is using me… I guess he/she is looking deep down in his/her heart to find out what he/she really wants and with whom."

And when I ask, "Is this what he/she is telling you?" Their reply is "No, I just know him/her. He/she is not that kind of person."

At this point I am thinking to myself, "So why are you calling me to ask me if I think your ex is using you?"

When you can't fool even yourself anymore, it's definitely past "make-believe".

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Just because you really want to believe something doesn't mean that you should read more "love" into his or her actions than there is. For all there is, those signs that he or she wants you back could be wishful thinking more than anything else.

The really sad part about being stringed along is that it lures you into a false sense of hope. Since he or she hasn't done anything to make you feel otherwise you sort of get the idea that there might actually be a second chance, and you keep on waiting --forever. You might even discover after "waiting" endlessly that he or she has a potential lay lined up but wants you to be on a string just incase it doesn't work.

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If you suspect that your ex is using you, chances are they are…

If you are getting very mixed signals, sit up!

1. He or she seldom -- if ever -- compliments you even when you take extra time to make yourself especially attractive to him or her. Your ex doesn't even look at your admiringly when you go out.

2. He or she is so sweet when you are together (and when you are having sex) but when you are apart, he or she ignores you -- never bothers to call and doesn't seem to care at all what's happening in your life.

3. If it's been over three months of "it's there but not quite there yet" and you are still the one always emailing and calling him or her. You never receive anything from him or her. He or he rarely -- if at all -- initiates contact.

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4. You barely have a meaningful conversation and your calls never last more than 5 minutes on the phone. And if they do, it's because he or she has had a rough day and wants an ear to listen and a shoulder to lean on.

5. Before the break-up, he or she took you to meet his or her friends, and invited you to family BBQ's and office Christmas parties, but since the two of you have been seeing each other again, you've not been invited to meet friends or family. It's like your ex doesn't want people close to him or her to know that the two of you are "back together".

6. He or she spends more time hanging out with friends than he or she spends with you.

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7. You never really talk about "us". Most of your communication is in "I" or "you" and not much "we" -- except when you are disagreeing on something.

8. You are supporting your ex financially -- money, accommodation, bills and you pay for most of your dates etc.

These are very strong signs that should tell you that you are being used. But don't jump at straws --it will only send your mind into a loop. Ask your ex what the real deal is.

There is a possibility that your ex is:

1) Just testing you to see if he or she can once again trust you with his or her heart;

2) Is confused about your change, may be or she didn't expect you to be different (totally loving person) from the person he or she broke up with in the first place;

3) Feeling that things are happening too soon and too quickly for him or her;

4) Still wants to be friends and maybe have something later on in the future.

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5) Needs your financial support until he or she can get on his or her own feet (that is if at all they've ever been on their two feet without leaning on someone else).

BUT there is also that possibility that your ex is using you and stringing you along.

You'll never know if you don't find out -- by asking the right way.

There isn't that much of an incremental risk in terms of rejection pain anyway. If anything it will clarify where things actually stand, and help you move forward one way or another from the confusing place where you are now.

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