Fear & Reality

Dialogue on Fear and Reality
Submitted by George on Monday, 02/06/2012

This is a powerful mental construct that prevents us from being creative, happy and successful.

The world as it appears to us now, is largely, a reflection of the "egoic mind " with fear being the unavoidable consequence of egoic delusion produced by separation.

It produces a sense of lack, scarcity and confusion.

It resides in the realm of time. A mental construct that helps us to understand the changes in our environment. It is about a tyranny of an imagined past and/or ones anxieties produced by an anticipated future event. Not knowing what is going to happen. The ego (our psychological shell) is very convincing when it comes to promising salvation in the future. If there is salvation it can only be in the now.

In fact true salvation is freedom from compulsive thinking and negativity. And above all, from past and future as a psychological need. As you know a psychological need is the psychological need to identify with the past for your identity. Presence is the reality that dissolves the illusion of the past, and the future.

Our job and purpose is to point to where enlightment can be enabled. Enlightment, consciously chosen means to relinquish your attachment to past and future and to make the Now the main focus of your Life.

You re-member, "We Move in The Direction of The Dominant Thought"?

The incessant mental noise of thinking prevents you from finding that realm of inner stillness that is inseparable from Being.

That stillness can be defined as a cosmic, non-local field and energy and information that whispers to you in the silence between your thoughts. And through our five senses It converts this cosmic non-local energy into a limited physical reality.

This is what I have experienced in most of my relationships: Most of us at some time or another have become emotionally reactive when certain situations trigger a reaction. Then, an emotional complex from the past is brought up and captures your attention. (you become it! and, live in the past!)

They are compulsive patterns of mind. Or, we are a bundled set of conditioned responses. Where is the freedom in that?

Whenever I stop and pause, (and I am grateful for this "space") and I reflect on: Am I a conscious volitional being? I suddenly realize I could not ask that question unless I was, for that moment.

Something remains un-affected by all the transient circumstances in our life situation and that is who we are.

To contrast this moment of consciousness, stop and think about all the discussions, or dialogue you have been exposed to that center around guilt, pride, resentment, anger, regret or self pity. Is this not about reinforcing a false sense of self and helping to accellerate the body's aging process by creating and accumulating more past in your psyche?

Our purpose is to be a light of love (abundance) when we meet others who are in the darkness because they are have forgotten who they are. Confusion and fear is the first sign of darkness and fear. A sense of separation grows and festers. This projection produces fear, anger and then attack. Focus on: nothing that could happen in the future could be better than this moment. The Buddha said: If you know who you are, then, I will follow you. If you do not know who you are, then, you will follow me.

Re-member, The cost of giving is receiving.

If you want to be creative, then, oscillate between mind and no-mind. The ego can only project.

Until our next encounter,

George Maris, SR® Life Coach

George Maris - Life Coach Center - "We Move In The Direction Of The Dominant Thought" Remember that you always get what you know. If all of what you know is what you don't want, then you will always get more of the same.

Author's Bio: 


Life Coach Center® - George Maris, SR® Subconscious Restructuring Stress Counselling LifeCoach - We Move In The Direction Of The Dominant Thought. You Always Get What You Know. If All That You Know Is What You Don't Want, Then You Will Get More Of What You Don't Want In The Absence Of Not Knowing What You Desire. Whatever You Focus on (Positive or Negative) Expands! Being A Witness Brings You Closer To Who You Really Are. All Discomfort And Fear Are Simply Produced From a State Of Separation. Fear Is A Projection Of Lack. Creativity Is Only Possible Through The Extension Of Love And Abundance.

What determines human behavior? If you cannot answer this question, then how can you fix it if it is broken? Success requires integrating Love - Health - Wealth - Self Image and your Spirituality. This is the heart of a successful life coaching system. We go beyond the body and address the mind. Where all the software can be found and rewritten to achieve a happy and successful life. You are not the body; you are "free". This process produces "evidenced based results".

Unlock the power of your "Subconscious" by integrating it with your "Conscious Mind" to achieve your goals and objectives. Positive affirmations produce "Cognitive Dissonance" if it is not integrated with your "Subconscious Mind" which processes information at 4 Billion bits/second. This is Long-Term Memory. More powerful than your "Conscious Mind" which processes information at 2000 bits/second. This is Short-Term Memory.

Simply said, without integration, your perceptions filter all of the information interacting with you and the environmental signals based on your belief system which produces "Premature Cognitive Commitments". Your belief systems are stored in your "Subconscious" and may produce un-desired behavior! To effect a change in behavior requires doing something different to produce a desired change in behavior to accomplish your goals and objectives.

Premature Cognitive Commitments are stored in your "Subconscious Mind". Is it not important to know how to recognize,access and change this infomation to enable your desired results and behavior? How do you become a "Conscious Volitional Being"?

You need to address what your "I can't Messages" are? They are stored in your subconscious and need to be restructured with "I Can Messages".

Here is an example of a I Can't Message: "You will never amount to anything."

Or, You're going to get cancer because it's genetic.

Here is an example of a I Can Message: "I deserve happines and success in my life".

Or, my beliefs control my genes and I control my beliefs.

Perceptions Control Behavior

Perceptions Control your Genes

Perceptions Can Re-Write Your Genes

Perceptions Can Re-Write Your Behavior.

Perception defined, is the interaction of environmental signals triggering the antenna's on every cell of your body to energize the processing protein within the cell producing a physical sensation (awareness).

I Have Been A Corporate Life Coach To Over 2,000 Financial Advisors Helping To Define Their Strategies, Tactics And Mission Statements to accomplish their goals and objectives. I have delivered and conducted over 480 seminars and workshops addressing their personal "desires" and "fears". We needed to address the "Dynamic" and the "Mechanics" of Happines and Success. You cannot do this without integrating the Love - Wealth - Health - Self Image and Spiritual aspects of your life. The final step is to recognize the "Self behind the Self-Image".

When You Are Confused It Is Because You Have Forgotten Who You are. We Were born To Create Values Beneficial To Each And Everyone Of Us As An Extension Of Love. Always Focus On "Perfect Love" Which Cast Out Fear And Lack. Choose between Fear, Lack and Scarcity or, Love and Abundance.

Whenever there is projection, you will find Fear, Anger, and then Attack. They are all illusions. A good lesson to focus on is: "I Am Not Upset For The Reason I Think".

Remember that The Cost Of Giving Is Receiving!

George Maris - 818-723-6069 - gmaris@ca.rr.com