One of the most important things a person can do for their relationship evolution is cutting cords that still bind them to previous relationships and prevent them from completing those relationships in the highest of ways. Most people do not realize that when you have a relationship with someone your energetic systems become connected, especially when there is a strong emotional or mental event between both parties such as a traumatic or painful event. We create energy cords through sex and when we make conscious or subconscious vows, contracts, promises or oaths (spoken and unspoken) with the other person. Often one person will strongly feel and think that those promises are still valid to this day.

These energy cords of attachment are connected to one or more chakras of both people. The frequency of the thoughts and emotions that you had with that person will resonate with the energy of a specific chakra. For example if you experience a heartbreak or betrayal then you can create a cord between your heart chakra and the other person’s heart chakra. This means that even though a relationship ends, the energetic relationship is still there despite the time passed. And even though you may be physically separate now, you’re still very much connected to them energetically. So the same energy dynamic is going on (drama, pain and suffering), even though consciously you may think the relationship is completed. This can drain your energy and pulse your emotionally body, depending on where the cords are located. This is why many people continue to constantly think about their ex partner and feel the pain of past events.

The process of cutting cords on all levels of your awareness is the most important step to complete past relationships in the highest of ways and to remove any energetic cords that are attached between you and the other person. This is the only way your soul can close the chapter and be ready to move on to higher relationships, events and experiences. Not cutting cords often results getting stuck in a low frequency relationship karmic loop where the same things keep happening over and over again. Going back to the previous example of betrayal and heartbreak, if you had these experiences during a previous relationship and you told yourself “I had enough, I am going to leave this person”, but even though you are physically separated from him or her the energetic cords from that experience will keep you connected to that person.

The problem is that all the painful and traumatic experiences that you created in that relationship will then be carried in your soul memory and on to your next relationship. In fact the frequency of those unresolved energy cords and karmic ties will attract you to people, places, times, things and events that resonate with the frequency of that abuse, anger, grief, betrayal, heartbreak, pain and hurt. So when you do manifest another relationship you will have a tendency to project onto your new relationship all of this anger and hurt from the past one. These relationship cycles continue over and over and the person is not aware why their relationships fail or why they can’t attract a different type of person. So they keep creating more and more similar experiences and the energetic blockages become more solidified, they continue to add more etheric mass and the negative frequencies get stronger. This is one of the main reason divorce rates dramatically increase for 2nd and 3rd marriages. And ultimately this will affect the person’s health and well-being.

Many of these karmic relationships, often love-hate relationships are from past lifetimes which our soul brings back into our lives so that we can finally resolve and absolve the karma and move on. It is very common for some of our worst enemies from past lives to actually incarnate into our own family or come back as a future spouse. So think about all your past relationships that have not been completed in the highest of ways and imagine if you could call up all of the karmic ties that were created from these past relationships and permanently remove all energetic attachments. Then you are able to connect with them from a place of higher giving love, gratitude and compassion in order to complete the relationship in the highest of ways. In this way, the person will not be brought back into your life later to resolve this, or you won’t have to resolve this in another relationship or future lifetime.

This process is exactly what I facilitate for other people during the interactive and recorded Cutting Cords of Attachment Clearing Session. By working with your Higher Self, using advanced energy healing techniques and Sacred Geometry Codes we are able to cut all karmic ties and energy cords that bind you to that previous relationship(s).

Some of the most common relationships that are important to focus on are:

- mother/daughter, father/son, husband/wife, past friends, past lovers, past abusive relationships, and relationships with employers.

When we clear the karmic ties and cut cords of attachments between you and your family members, it doesn’t mean that you can’t have a relationship with them anymore. It just means that your relationship will evolve from a karmic or codependent one, into a relationship or union of higher love and understanding.
 A true union is when you can love the other person and not expect anything back from them in return, and allow them to be who they are. In this way, you have two people who are truly whole, and not just trying to extract what they feel that they lack in themselves from the other person. And they are also not trying to constantly change the other person.

Author's Bio: 

Gustavo Castaner revolutionized the field of relationship mastery, soulmate manifestation and dating by combining his lifelong passions of energy medicine, emotional mastery, distance healing and coaching with relationships. His relentless focus to work on himself propelled him to uncover the root cause of the deepest dynamics and unseen forces that sabotage relationships, the energy blockages that prevent people from manifesting a high frequency relationship and the key steps to clear and disentangle these.

While undergoing a Masters Degree in psychology, Gustavo Castaner noticed that even though he gained more awareness about the mental and emotional patterns that prevented him from experiencing a happy, conscious and fulfilled relationship, there was a missing link. Awareness was a fundamental step yet in most cases it was not enough to achieve permanent healing, change or success. He intuitively knew that the source of most of his relationship struggles and life dilemmas were found at the soul level and his frequency. For years he embarked on a journey to study from the top relationship experts from a wide range of approaches: psychological, emotional, neurological, family constellations, body language, distance healing and alternative medicine. His unquenchable thirst to master any topic that he focuses upon led him to become an expert energy healer, coach, speaker and seminar leader. And on 2007 he founded and since then has assisted thousands of people from around the world to clear the highest priority energy blockages that prevented them from embodying their Higher Selves and finding their life’s purpose.

Being adamant when it comes to his own personal development, Gustavo worked on himself for years and was able to break through the heaviest relationship karmic loops, manifest his soulmate (Jennifer Cruz) and cultivate a higher loving relationship. Not only was he able to achieve this for himself, he was also able to help other people do the exact same thing. That’s when the light bulb went off for him and he discovered his true life’s mission: to assist other people clear their relationship slate and manifest what he calls an “ascended relationship” at an accelerated rate so they could avoid a lifetime of struggle, drama, frustration and pain in their relationships.

Gustavo is a master at disrupting those patterns that may be hindering growth and development in a relationship. He adroitly allows the patterns in the individual or relationship to reveal themselves, and then rigorously interrupts any interactions that maintain problems or that are destructive, encouraging couples (or those who are single and desire to manifest a relationship) to take the first steps toward changing their behavioral, cognitive and emotional patterns immediately. Although he is serious about his work, his sessions are conducted with humor, unconditional love and with the utmost respect for the people who work with him. The resulting experiences lead to the realm of the soul, an area not often addressed or encountered in the more traditional approaches.

Gustavo is the author and creator of the Ascended Relationship Mastery Manifestation Program, a holistic approach that combines the latest cutting edge data, strategies, tools and energy healing techniques that address the SOURCE of the top relationship issues (Male-Female Rift, Emotional Pain Body, karmic ties and cords, etc.) and clears them on all levels of the individual’s awareness.

He also pioneered The High Frequency Dating Lifestyle where people raise their frequency by working on themselves at the energetic level, thus attract and manifest life partners and soulmates who resonate with their own high frequency and desire to embark on a committed, harmonious and healthy relationship. People who follow The High Frequency Dating Lifestyle are able to transition from attracting people based on the personalities of the ego, past karmic imprints, their own emotional pain body or codependency imprints to attracting people based on soul compatibility, core values and higher giving love.