We can create our Destiny by using our Minds and showing effort. Effort is so important in anything we do in life. For instance if you don’t show any effort at work, how successful will you be? If you don’t show any effort in your relationships, how successful will they be? If you don’t show any effort towards staying healthy, how healthy will you be? So with the power of your mind and putting effort towards your destiny anything is possible. Here is a theory called T.I.F.B.R.D or The Equation of the Mind. Devin Hastings introduced it to me. This theory helps explain how the mind operates so you can understand the importance of our thoughts and how we talk to ourselves.

The Equation of the Mind

T = Thought. The frequency of our thoughts leads to an image and converts that image into a feeling.

I = Image. A picture is worth a thousand words.

F = Feeling. Strong enough feelings lead to behaviors.

B = Behavior. The right behaviors produce positive results.

R = Results. With enough results, you create your own destiny.

D = Destiny. Believe in who you are!

As you can see, whenever you have a thought or picture in your mind, is worth a thousand words. It is so important to think positive thoughts and have positive images of yourself and your life.

A friend of mine kept talking about all the negative things that could happen in his life and complained a lot. It ended up causing his relationship to end. It is amazing how you can talk yourself into something when you really don’t want it to happen because you may not know how to talk positive to yourself and others. I went to see Gary Smalley a few years ago at a two day seminar and they first hour or so he spent on “Dead Bolting our Mouths”. What a good thing for us to do if we don’t have anything positive to say about ourselves or others. Try it for 30 days just saying positive things only to yourself and others and see how you will feel after 30 days and how your relationships may have changed over the time. People like to have fun and be around fun people, not people that bring them down.

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Author's Bio: 

Hi, My name is Bruce Mills and I am the creator of Mills Way.

Thank you for visiting my site. I started this site in the hopes of helping others live a happier life. My dad inspired me to create the Mills Way. He lead a life that anyone would be proud of. He was has happily married to my mom for 57 years. He was a giving man to people in the community in so many ways. He was a supporter of my dreams and others. He was not a materialistic person and lived with little debt his whole life. He had a good smile and was a great dad to myself and my sister. His five grand kids would tell you that he was the best grandfather anyone could ever have.

Mills Way

Mills Way is Positive Solutions for home, life and business. We offer Life Coaching, Speaking to Hypnosis services. We can make you a personal Self Hypnosis CD or we have many already made. I will also offer many other items and services in the future. I am available to speak to your group or business about the Mills Way. I am also available for one on one coaching. Mills way covers Leadership, Faith, Dreams, Relationships, Business, Balance in Life, Living Worry Free, Living Debt Free, Communication, Being Positive Daily, Giving Back to Others and much more. With Hypnosis I can do one on one sessions to group sessions to parties or events.

I have two wonderful kid that I am so proud of. My daughter is going to the University of Minnesota and my son is going to New York University. Both have done so amazing in school and out of school. I have faith they will continue on and live by the Mills Way.

Listed below are the schools I attended for my Coaching, NLP and Hypnosis training from. My NLP and Hypnosis training I received from a Minnesota state licensed school and from a teacher with over 25 years experience. Hypnosis and Coaching Certification from Minnesota Institute of Advanced Communication skills and Coaches Institute International. Also a Certified Competent Communication from Toastmasters International. I continue to keep up with current training and techniques. I am a excellent choice to help you.

Professional Associations I belong to:

Minnesota Coaches Association, Member
National Guild of Hypnotist, Inc, Member
National Federation of Neuro Linguistic Programming, Member
Community Associations I belong to:

Toastmasters International, President 2011
Heritage Days Committee, Board Member
White Sands Park Committee, Member
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Remember anything is possible. Make it Happen and live the Mills Way.

Bruce Mills, CPC, Master NLP, CHt, CC

President of BAM Management Group, Inc.