Do you believe that you have control over the abundance, success and wealth that flows into your life? Many people tend to think that they have to be born healthy, lucky, and wealthy to achieve success in life but that is not nearly the case at all. While a little luck (or soul power) always comes in handy, it's important to realize that we are all born with soul blueprints that are exclusive to our own individuality. Those blueprints are essential in the pursuit of happiness, health, and prosperity.

Let me use as an example the area of discovering new and loving relationships between two people. Along your life's journey, I am sure you have met many significant individuals and possibly you've fallen in love and opened yourself up to become vulnerable to another. How magnificent it is to open yourselves up in such a way as to allow someone else to view your most sensitive feelings or do you find this challenging?

While you have consciously made the decision to form a new union and cultivate a new beginning, a new chapter in your life, have you truthfully taken the steps to make sure this new encounter will bear multiple blessings both now and in the future for you and your partner? Believe me, as a relationship expert, I have found that too many people are not living in conscious awareness.

Many of us carry the baggage of our youth, which are our sorrows, our fears, our anxieties and our painful experiences deep within the recesses of our subconscious mind. All of these things have built up over time and have been brought into our relationships, that is, relationships at work, relationships with friends, relationships with family, and our relationships in loving a partner. Now instead of just one laundry list of "stuff", we have two. If you have already raised your level of awareness to where you are at one with your soul and at one with your adult you, then you are already a step ahead of the game. But is your partner, your significant other vibrating at the same frequency?

It's time for you to be your own relationship expert and review how you have perceived your relationships and life up to this time.

As an example, if you have reached a certain level of heightened awareness in your life and you have made peace with your inner self, how can you, as a helpful partner aid in the transitional phase of your significant other? The transitional phase relates to going from a couple to a family unit. How do you create the mindset for this new experience and take on the role of the future parenting? Parenting is a process of nurturing not only the newborn and youth but also giving the physical, social and intellectual support to those that you care about through the sharing of your skills and values. There are a lot of questions to ask yourself before entering into a new phase of your life, especially if you are living in consciousness.

The first step to creating a sense of harmony in of your relationships starts with an open field of communication and trust. To express and exhibit a clear understanding of what is acceptable behavior requires that you must each first teach love and respect of self. With each experience and stage of development each person, child, adult will need to be continually conscious of bestowing self-love and respect, of forgiving oneself and learning not to internalize the outcomes. At the same time, it is important that you emotionally heal yourself from all past challenges. Once you have moved beyond this initial step of self-preservation and awareness, the next step is to realize that bringing a new life or a new experience into your world should never be viewed as a burden but as a gift. Each new life and each new experience that enters your world is a brand new Soul essence that offers you the opportunity to grow mentally, emotionally and spiritually as you continue to seek your joy.

When we choose to live consciously of our actions, our thoughts and our reason for being, we are better prepared to tackle all the challenges that life presents to us. All relationships deserve our conscious awareness. As your relationship expert, I sincerely hope you will open up your mind to live more consciously.

Author's Bio: 

Joan Marie is an accomplished Medical Intuitive, and Business Intuitive and is the founder and President of Joan Marie Companies. She is fast becoming the World’s leading authority on the teachings of Intuition and how to make your Intuition work for you in your life. She is famous for her uncanny details as a Medical Intuitive. People seek out her skill at being able to scan your body in search of clues for the disconnect as she sees the emotional link between the disease or situations happening in your over all health. Joan Marie has teamed up with Doctors from all over the world to consult with their patients to help resolve their medical problems. Many doctors refer their clients and encourage them to work with Joan Marie because they too realize that many medical problems are emotional based. She is also a medium and can communicate and deliver messages from loved ones from the other side. Joan Marie’s life mission is to not only awaken you to your true life’s purpose but to also assist you at the core of your soul with healing any emotional problems that are continually coming up in your daily life. Through her special talents and gifts Joan Marie can share with you the exact age when your problem began as she works with you to bring you specific tools to help you heal your soul and emotions.