In today’s world it is not so easy to find an appropriate partner. It is considered to be as difficult as a person finding a needle in the stack of hay. In fact, many among us have faced situations wherein the relationships do not work appropriately. But we are not able to understand it most of the time that why are the things turning out that way. This also makes us confused and pissed off at times.
Kahlil Gibran rightly states, the relationship between our life and love. Love is divine and higher form of spirituality. It is also said that Love is God, and God is Love. It’s a wonderful experience which can happen to anyone. It teaches one to give and to keep giving happiness to others, unconditionally. And then there is an attraction and compassion.Love marriages have been happening all over, since ancient times mostly in our civilizations. In Vedic and ancient civilization it was considered as Gandharva Vivah i.e., marriage due to the mere choice of male and a female. The ancient examples of Gandharva Vivah are Arjuna and Subhadra, Dushayant and Shakuntala. And in these modern times, love marriages are happening, as well. Love Marriage is a union of two persons based upon mutual attraction, liking and affection. In Love Marriage, the couples usually marry, even if, their elders are against it, for any reasons
Have you ever thought why and what could be the reasons behind all these love marriages?
Astrologically speaking, there are, certain permutation combination of planets, making love marriages to happen. The astrological birth charts can very clearly and loudly reveal the tendencies and inclinations to go for love marriage. Now, we must also admit here that all love affairs do not get converted into marriages.
The 2nd house of horoscope reveals the family happiness and 12th house indicates the bed pleasures and comforts. These houses have also to be checked along with above said astrological parameters. Similarly, watch for the 9th house of horoscope for the elders, dharma, religion or righteousness. If there are any afflictions of Rahu, Saturn etc on the 9th house of elders, it may prepare one to go against ones elders or cross religion marriage.
As to why there is a mutual attraction between the males and females, there are astrological reasons. Astrologically speaking, the Mars rules the sex life of females and Venus signifies the sex life of males. If the placement of Mars in females horoscope, coincides with the placement of Venus, in Male’s horoscope by closer degree there is a great mutual attraction. However there is 6/8 or 2/12 axis placement of Mars and Venus in the mutual horoscopes they will dislike or hate each other.

When Mars of any woman’s horoscope gets the influence of Saturn or Rahu or both of man’s horoscope to a closer degree, the woman will be drawn towards the man. And when Venus of any man’s horoscope is conjoined or influenced by Saturn or Rahu or both of woman’s horoscope to a closer degree, the man will be drawn towards the lady.

Astrologically if, Mars in females and Venus in males in one and same sign, they will be mutually attracted towards each other and may cause a love affair. If the Jupiter (a benefic planet) of man conjoins Mars of female, to a closer degree, the relations between the two will be based on mutual trust and attraction will be throughout life.

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