Believe in your self

We all know about some people who managed to do the impossible even though everyone used to tell them that they won’t be able to do it. Everyone in the world is eager to succeed whatever they dream but only a few can achieve their dreams. This is because most people never believe in themselves and their abilities. Some studies have shown that some people have a deep inner feeling of not being good enough while some people have negative thought of all types.

However, we should know that believing in ourselves is the first step to success. So we need to learn how to believe in ourselves. First, you should love yourself and understand that you are a unique individual. You are different from others. Before doing anything else, you should firstly understand that you are an individual and there is no other person just like you.

This is the key to establishing self-esteem and self-motivation. As you are special you must have your own set of abilities, thoughts and skills that other people do not have. Sometime you may feel inferior to others or you will feel that I can’t do these. So do not feel inferior in some way or other because everybody is unique. Just believe in yourself and your abilities. Moreover,
you should know that if you want to receive love and confidence from other people, you should love yourself first. Then you should give love others. If you show mercy to others you will receive it.

Then, you can try to ignore other people's opinions sometimes. Some people are concerned about other people's opinions when they do something. They think that they cannot succeed unless everyone agrees with them. However, we should not live or die by other people's opinions. Though sometimes other people may give us good suggestions, we should have our own opinions.

Next, try anything you would like to try. If you are interested in something, just try it. Do not
think too much and do not mind other people's opinions. When you succeed in doing one thing, the feeling of victory can build up a sense of self and can help you believe in yourself. After trying several times, you will find that you are more confident even if you are facing with big challenges.

Last, you need to have the right attitude towards failure. If you have been beaten down long enough and think failure is a terrible thing, believing in yourself can seem impossible. Therefore, you should learn to have the right attitude towards failure. You need to know that failure is common in everyday life and it can happen to anybody. So you should consider failure as nothing more than an experience and believe that you can gain success one day. Finally I would like to say that believe in your self is the firs key to the success in your life.

Author's Bio: 

I'm A.M Azhar. BSc graduate and currently reading psychology for further studies. I am interested in writing personnel development articles according to psychology.