Women enjoy a variety of qualities from many different men in their lives. We can still enjoy and honor a monogamous relationship; however one man is sometimes not enough to fulfill a woman’s many needs. We are extremely social creatures and experience unique connections with most everyone we meet. In being ultra sensitive and highly intuitive, most women are naturally compassionate and enjoy nurturing others. Our inherent maternal instincts compel us to console and comfort our family and friends including plenty of men who are organically drawn to our kindhearted nature.

It can sometimes make our chosen life-partner a bit anxious, as we social butterflies enjoy sharing our inner and outer beauty, love and consideration with others. Our partners need to understand that this is who we are, and we enjoy diverse social connections to satisfy our numerous feminine aspects. It is important to be respectful with our significant others, as well as be true to ourselves within our various relationships. Our lover may fulfill certain needs with close intimate contact; however he may not be great at offering all the emotional support that women crave. Sometimes we look to our family and close friends to share our personal issues and certain subject matter.

A variety of healthy relationships can greatly enrich our lives when we share knowledge, resources, experiences, support and connection. We can find common ground with most anyone once we learn more about their lifestyle, where they’re from and what they’re into. Some women enjoy a variety of friendships with men for intellectual stimulation, business discussion, and social connections. You may enjoy political conversation with one co-worker, discussing your favorite movies or televisions shows with another, and talk about the latest scientific discoveries with someone else. Everyone has their own unique perceptions and areas of expertise to learn from.

Any platonic friendship can be healthy and supportive as long as we are honest and true with our feelings, intentions and reactions. It can be dreadfully awkward if a male friend goes over the line of appropriateness in becoming overly affectionate or professes his undying love for you – especially if it’s a mutual friend. That is when we need to have clear boundaries and be strong enough in our own integrity to make respectable choices and actions. Gay men generally make fabulous friends for women, as they seem to have more sensitivity and insight in regards to emotional connection in relationships. The more friendly love we share with others, the more strength, sustenance and enrichment we have in our lives.

“And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make.” –Sir Paul McCartney

At the end of the day, make sure you bring all your goodness home to share your ultimate affection and attention with your one and only true love. Avoid chatting about all the other people in your life, as that is your own personal experience. Most men generally don’t appreciate gossip anyway, especially about people they don’t really know very well. Just focus on nurturing your own partnership in a positive and harmonious manner. Make him feel special by offering selfless gestures and sexy smiles. Let him know that no matter whom you converse with throughout the day, that he’s the one lucky enough to share a bed with you at night.

Author's Bio: 

Allura Joy has worked with women of all ages and of diverse backgrounds for many years in offering support, holistic therapy and relationship counseling, as well as sharing valuable resources and useful information in the areas of women’s sexuality, health & wellness. Allura has facilitated various women’s groups, retreats, conferences and special events for women to come together in community to share, connect and support one another.

Allura also works with women individually to help resolve personal issues around relationships and intimacy, specializing in helping women who may have emotional and/or physical issues and insecurities with sexual expression and experiencing orgasm. She enjoys helping clients explore their passions in finding a sense of purpose and to manifest their dreams and desires. She is a certified Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, NLP Master Practitioner, Licensed Massage Therapist and Yoga Instructor.

Allura enjoys writing articles to empower women in their sexuality, promoting a healthy fulfilling sex life - with or without a partner! Check out my blog, Straight UP Girl Talk with Allura at: http://www.oceanusnaturals.com/blog/