The 7 Most Disappointing, Yet Empowering Love Life Realities

No one, including us, enjoys being reminded of
some of the love life realities that we’ve deduced
through our work since 1992, especially if they
place great emphasis on romantic traditions.

Many have told us that they think we’re too
fatalistic in our views and too straightforward
in how we present them. Though it may be
unsettling at first, objectively considering and
perhaps eventually accepting ideas such as
those below can improve your life, increase
your peace of mind, and empower you.

1) Love relationships are wonderful in that they
usually offer delightful romance, companionship,
and other benefits. However, they are, from a
spiritual perspective, primarily for personal
growth and achieving various earthly missions
such as bringing children into the world, important
goals, financial obligations, and work that will
influence others in significant ways.

2) Relationships may not always give you (your
personality) what you want, but they always
offer potential for spiritual growth. Fortunately,
you have f.ree will to make the most of your
situations. Creative visualization (e.g., conscious
creation) can help to bridge the gap to the
experiences you desire with a lover, but don’t get
down on yourself when you eventually find that
it only works in conjunction with fated love life
circumstances and it won’t totally over-ride rough
karmic conditions. Why must you face your
unique karmic conditions (good and bad)?
Because your soul wants you to.

3) Sometimes you are attracted to certain people
because of your current life programming, much
of which is rooted in early life experiences. From
a spiritual perspective though, much of life, even
your childhood experiences, is karmic.

4) Past life karma is the main reason you are
sometimes drawn to those who may seem to
have more of a negative than positive influence
in your life; you have unfinished business or
lessons to experience together. Additionally,
our findings indicate that the subconscious
mind’s complexities are firmly linked to past
incarnations, not only this lifetime. Your soul’s
journey and the rewarding and challenging
earned karma from multitudes of lifetimes has
at least the same or greater symbolic impact
than early life and societal programming and
also lays the groundwork for it.

5) Alternatively, a romantic connection could be
for other karmic reasons, such as a test to let go,
heal, and move on, and sometimes it’s mostly
about tangible or intangible rewards.

6) It’s important to value each relationship for
its uniqueness and avoid falling into the trap of
comparing love connections to the ideal relationship
(those portrayed in Hollywood movies and romance
novels), which only serves to foster disappointment
and unhappiness.

7) A good relationship bond is either there or it
isn’t and is based upon your past life karma with
each other, level of self-awareness, personal
cyclical timing, and degree of challenging or
rewarding individual love life karma. However,
even the roughest connection has its enjoyable
moments. Additionally, subconscious fears and
defenses play heavily into the dynamics of all
relationships. We’ve found handwriting analysis
to be the most accurate form of subconscious
personality analysis.

Also note that the subconscious mind dominates
the conscious mind, is clever beyond your
conscious awareness, many subconscious fears
and defenses are embedded in your essence after
being formed over lifetimes and there are no
simple solutions to totally remove them. Even
managing to effectively identify them in the first
place is difficult. Simply “watching your thinking”
and reciting a few affirmations over the course
of a few weeks or even months in an attempt to
rid yourself of the trouble spots of your
unconscious mind will have little effect due
to them being so firmly rooted in your mind.
Fortunately, you can work to identify, adjust to,
and even modify subconscious blocks in time,
such as through the methods we promote.

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