I would like to give 5 coooool tips for staying calm, positive and even going beyond that. 2009 seems to be the year in which the whole world and not just some parts of it will learn the lesson of LOSS ( from their own experience or observing the experience of others). Loss is a part of change. One thing is replaced by another. It is also the generator of the process of transition, from one status quo to another. In all instances, it is a time to seize opportunities and learn lessons. No, don't get upset. Stay cool and listen. Some people are so deprived, they really have nothing to lose at this time, so you are better off than they are.

The wonderful thing is that for both those who don't have and those who lose what they thought they had, the same power and possibilities are available. Stay with me now. Make 2009 the year that you find out how, why and what this is all about and experience it for yourself. It is not a SECRET. You just have not tested it out yourself. We are going to call on our friends: INTUITION, INSIGHT AND INNER WISDOM, and their cousins Manifesting Mindset, Energy, Vision and Purpose. We also have an helper called Focus and Determination, and the keepers of the door - INTENTION,GOALS AND ACTION. Believe me there are no masters of this, we are all seekers and learners but we have learned to share this deep knowledge as we experience it.

STAYING COOL WHEN YOU HAVE LOST YOUR JOB - Transcending time.
1. Don't focus on what the media statistics say.
2. Your job loss is not you disappearing. You are still here and it has nothing to do with you.
3. This is the chance to begin to look to see how you can begin your new job search bearing in mind what your purpose may be and putting to work your vision of who you are and what your ideal job should look like. Your job search, networking, resume and interviews will reflect what you have done in this respect.
4.Remember that your Higher Self does not know about time being too short or too long and therefore you don't have to worry about whether what you envision will happen in time to save you from losing everything else. Connect with your Higher Self and get what you want.
5.This is the time indeed to see beyond 'so-called reality' and testyour power in manifesting what is really out there for you, in terms ofeither a new job or a new business.

STAYING COOL WHEN YOU HAVE LOST YOUR HOME - Transcending space.

1.Here go the stats again. Out the door. Your dream home is out there waiting for you.
2. You had to give up this one to learn to transcend both time and spaceat this time.
3. You can turn to yourself and question what made you allow yourself togo through this.
4.Design your new home now, the way you really want it to be - not thesecond-hand one you struggled to pay for.

STAYING COOL WHEN YOU HAVE LOST YOUR BEST RELATIONSHIP - Transcending Pain

1. This may be even more difficult than the others, especially if married for decades, but the power is still in your hands.
2.If you allow yourself to sink deeper and deeper into pain and regrets there will be no room for what's better and grander.
3.Envision the relationships you want, with yourself first and then withothers, as well as with the significant other.
4.That significant other, just right for you, will pick up your positiveenergy, and vibrate toward you.

STAYING COOL WHEN YOU HAVE LOST YOUR MONEY - Transcending lack

1. The fear of, as well as the experience of, not having enough is apervasive condition of modern people.
2. You have to begin to think of yourself as operating in, and deservingof, an abundant reality.
3.As we can see, trillion, billion, million come to nothing when theyare used irresponsibly.
4.Write down for once how much money you want to have by the end of nextmonth and work with a trusted support person on the empowering steps tomake that manifest.

STAYING COOL WHEN YOU HAVE LOST YOURSELF- Becoming the BEING you are.
1. When things around you are going hay-wire, there is no need to panic.
2.Centered in your beliefs in abundance and great possibilities you should be at rest.
3. If you are depressed, burnt-out, disillusioned or upset then you have moved off the path of being empowered.
4. Get back on to the powerful path where energy and focused effort travels. Be the Wholesome You.

Author's Bio: 

Hyacinth E. Gooden-Bailey,M.A.- Global Life Transition Coach/Career Change Strategist –Member, International Coach Federation, writes articles, eBooks and books on Career Change and related subjects. She is host on Self-Help Talk radio: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/Life-TransitionCoach and has appeared as a guest on others. Her website is http://www.sapiencecoaching.com and her free bi-monthly eZine: Potential plus Possibilities may be subscribed to via: heb@sapiencecoaching.com