Unstoppable confidence is the unshakable belief in yourself
and what you are capable of. With confidence, people pursue
their goals and persevere until they achieve them. Without
confidence, time passes as the people stay stuck in their
rigid comfort zones, unable to escape. Here are six ways to
build high self-confidence.

1. Clarify your values and set goals

Your values are the guiding forces that tell you what is
important to you. your values will determine many things
such as how you act within your family, community and
culture, The decisions you make, how you behave, the habits
you develop, the ideals you hold dear, the rules you live by
and the goals you dream of achieving.

You can feel great about yourself by setting goals for
yourself and trying to meet them. Try a new dance, audition
for the school play, or learn about careers in which you may
be interested. Your self-esteem will improve when you have a
goal to work toward. So go ahead: dream and plan.

2. Success in personal relationship: practice self-
acceptance for greater self esteem.

We're all unique. Having good self-esteem means that you
love, respect, and trust yourself. You feel confident about
who you are. Your self-esteem is something very personal.
It's the way that you feel about yourself and how you think
that others feel about you. Everyone has something that
makes them special. What makes you special?

3. Communicating effectively with others

Learning how to communicate effectively is one of the best
things that you can do. It's important to know how to
express your feelings and thoughts to others clearly and
directly. You can deal with different situations and make
good decisions by learning how to communicate well. Sharing
your feelings is hard to do, but communication is the key to

A large part of knowing how to express yourself involves
knowing how to be firm when it's time to express your
feelings. This means being assertive. You can state your
opinions, stand up for others, and ask for something you
want or need without apologies.

4. Health and self-confidence

There's no doubt about it: increasing your health and eating
balanced meals will dramatically enhance your self-image and
your self-esteem. When you eat good food and you control
your weight, you have more energy, you move faster. As you
move faster, you do a lot more, and better. And as you do
more, your self-confidence grows up.

To have a healthy body you must give it all the nutrients it
needs to grow and develop. But how do you do that? First of
all, you need to understand that there are no good or bad
foods, only good and bad eating patterns.

5. Analyse your strengths and weaknesses

First, you need to recognize that you have tremendous
possibility to succeed and that you have strength, ability
and character to achieve anything you want.

You have one or more areas of excellence. Take the time to
identify it or them and capitalize on them continuously

What are you interested in? What is your passion? What do
you like to do? Harness your strengths and put them into
service for others.

6. Practice mental fitness

Mental fitness is like physical fitness. Mind programming,
positive thoughts are essential for your well-being. You
want positive emotions, "positive" actions and a positive
life so you need positive thoughts. It's that simple.

According to the law of attraction, you will attract people
and opportunities in harmony with your dominant thoughts.

You can program your mind so you will attract all that you
need to achieve your goals: people, money and circumstances.

When you build high self-confidence, you're capable of
great things, things you never thought possible. Self
confidence will bring you to the summit, you will see
more clearly, you will feel sharper and you will know
that there is nothing or nobody but you that can stop
you from succeeding in life, financially, personally,
emotionally, professionally and the most important
with your family.

Author's Bio: 

Discover how I was able to go from social phobia and
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