What really is reality? Two different people can be experiencing the same situation yet they have completely different experiences through the situation. Isn't that amazing? What makes the situation different for each person? Their perception of the experience that they have created with their own thoughts and feelings and that is a part of the Law of Attraction.

Remember that reality isn't what your physical eyes show your physical mind, reality is what your mind creates for your physical eyes to see. Mindboggling, isn't it?

How you love, how you react, how you see your world is what your reality is. You can change your reality to a world that you want to live in by changing your way of thinking, your way of reacting, and your way of feeling. It can be easy as long as you keep practicing.

Let's say someone tries to frustrate you. You handle this situation with frustration and you fume. This kind of reaction will continue to create a reality of frustration in some kind of form. Now let's say you decided that just because someone tries to frustrate you, you realize that you don't have to react with frustration. You can react with a calm and balanced self knowing that someone can keep their old frustration. You don't need it and you release it and move on from it. This is the kind of reaction that will continue to create a steady calm flow in your life. Think how easily you changed your reaction and your reality changed.

Looking deeper and changing your perception will also help you to change your reality that you are living in at this moment. So let's say you go to the office and there is that one person that seems like she is angry at the world. You perception is that this person is mean, never helps anyone, and doesn't like to be around people. You can't stand to be near her and you hope you don't have to work with her today. This is your current perception of another human being. Now let's take it a little deeper and see what really is going on. You don't really know her but her life has been a very hard one. She lost both parents within a year's time and she has been struggling ever since. She doesn't want to get close to anyone because she is afraid she will lose them so she treats everyone the same…angry and mistrusting.

So now that you know her story does it make a difference in what you think of her? Do you now understand why she is like she is? Do you think you may want to get to know her just in case she wants to talk?

By just knowing someone's story your perceptions change. Do this with everyone you meet. Think about what is under the surface of the obvious and see if you can see the true being that is living just like you. By digging deeper and seeing what is beyond the surface you can begin to forgive, begin to make new friends, begin to see that you really don't know until you have walked in their shoes. This will help you to not be judgmental and opinionated about another's life and by doing this, you will attract wonderful non judgmental and caring situations to yourself. This will change your reality.

You have all the power to change your reality. It doesn't take much if you can really begin to align your feelings and thoughts with what you want and release reactions and judgments that can slow you down in your manifestation.

What do you want your reality to be?

Author's Bio: 

Beth and Lee McCain are instructors and lecturers in applying the Law of Attraction to your life to attain whatever you desire. They have a great Law of Attraction radio show on Youtube that is both entertaining and informative. For more information about Beth and Lee products and services, please visit: Beth and Lee McCain Law of Attraction Web Site